"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Tired after working out or running?

Metzgermeister

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Sup everyone?

I've been on an epic fitness odyssey since about 2009. I quit smoking, cut back on drinking, eliminated fast food, and took up running and weight lifting. I lift weights Mon, Wed, Fri, and run about 3.5 miles (through a nice wooded trail around a lake :cool: ) the other 4 days out of the week. Occasionally I take a day off from one of those things, but not very often. About two times a year, I take a whole week off just for recovery purposes. It makes me feel great and look AWESOME. These 6-pack abs and bulging arms are really helping my game!

But I'm constantly feeling sleepy from it. I get at least 8 hours of sleep a night, usually 9 or 10! This even happens on days when I don't work out or run for whatever reason. I'm pretty sure I'm eating enough calories.

Does anyone know of any high-energy foods or methods of not feeling so drained after working out or running? I drink tea sometimes, but I'd prefer not to be dependent on caffeine just to stay awake.

Thanks!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sounds like overtraining to me. Post your workout routine for better assessments.
 

marmel75

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NorwegianDJ said:
Sounds like overtraining to me. Post your workout routine for better assessments.
Classic overtraining. People think if they go to gym more it will help, but in reality it usually leads to overtraining from the body not getting enough recovery time and lessens the results not make them greater.

Notice what you said about what happens when you take a whole week off...
try cutting down to 5 days a week...
 

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Overtraining, huh? I did think of that...

My routine, for those who are wondering, is a ABA/BAB split:

A:
Squat 3x5
Deadlift 1x5
Push Press 3x5
Pullups (with 25 lb. kettlebell strapped to waist) 3x[however many I can do; currently 6]

B:
Bench Press 3x5
Bent-over Rows 3x5
Pushups 3x[however many I can do; 70 right now]
Barbell Curls 3x8

I've been doing this same amount of exercise for years now (albeit with increasing weight) Shouldn't my body have caught up by now? I do take a week off now and then, but it doesn't seem to make a difference. I'm even tired DURING the week off.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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marmel75

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Metzgermeister said:
Overtraining, huh? I did think of that...

My routine, for those who are wondering, is a ABA/BAB split:

A:
Squat 3x5
Deadlift 1x5
Push Press 3x5
Pullups (with 25 lb. kettlebell strapped to waist) 3x[however many I can do; currently 6]

B:
Bench Press 3x5
Bent-over Rows 3x5
Pushups 3x[however many I can do; 70 right now]
Barbell Curls 3x8


I've been doing this same amount of exercise for years now (albeit with increasing weight) Shouldn't my body have caught up by now? I do take a week off now and then, but it doesn't seem to make a difference. I'm even tired DURING the week off.
Your body is trying to talk to you, but you aren't paying attention.
Sooner or later it will force you to pay attention, and I will guarantee you will not like the method it will use... Start listening while its still just talking.
 

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Personally, I doubt your "over-training" with your current weight training program. Your only working each muscle group 1-2 times a week. Your probably exhausting yourself from running 3 miles or more. Depending on your goals you may want to cut down on your cardio. Also are you eating enough Carbs? Carbohydrates are the fuel and energy that your body needs.


As marmel said; You do need to listen to your body. But just being tired is one thing. If your having pain that is a Red Flag.. Or if your still sore from your last workout you may want to take an additional rest day
 
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