"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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New to the forum. Looks like it is a lot of help. I'm a virgin, yes I said it and I'm a junior in college. I'm looking to get rid of the label. A girl, who is good looking and probably out of my league has been asking about me to my friend and IMed me the other day asking me why she hasn't seen me out (I go out a good deal, but I haven't seen her either...I guess we got different places).

Now what is the plan? Should I start talking to her more and more on the computer, besides seeing her when I do in person?

She isn't the relationship type, and I'm fine with that. But she could put out a little and for college I'll take it.

So what is my plan? Just wait for her to be out when I'm out? Any tips for when I see her out? What to say to her? Tips to getting her back? (should I bring her back to my place or ask her if she wants to go to her place)?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If you think shes out of your league your status is below hers and you havnt even started yet!
 
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Originally posted by TheLeopard
New to the forum. Looks like it is a lot of help. I'm a virgin, yes I said it and I'm a junior in college. I'm looking to get rid of the label. A girl, who is good looking and probably out of my league has been asking about me to my friend and IMed me the other day asking me why she hasn't seen me out (I go out a good deal, but I haven't seen her either...I guess we got different places).

Now what is the plan? Should I start talking to her more and more on the computer, besides seeing her when I do in person?

She isn't the relationship type, and I'm fine with that. But she could put out a little and for college I'll take it.

So what is my plan? Just wait for her to be out when I'm out? Any tips for when I see her out? What to say to her? Tips to getting her back? (should I bring her back to my place or ask her if she wants to go to her place)?
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I guess I mis-spoke on that. She's hooked up with a decent amount of guys here and I find myself better than some and not better than some. So I have a chance here, I just need some advice on getting it to work.
 
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When you meet her think KINO. When your talking to her, hand on her shoulder, escalate to a kiss. When your talking to her use a seductive voice (not johny bravo). This sh!t is so hard to explain on here.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think your plan should be to focus on other women. Well do that while making advances on this one...

SMS her... get her number and ask her out to do something fun. If she isn't in to it then no worries - you have other women to do things with...
 
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don't forget to helmet up, and inspect the playing field :woo:
 
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