"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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TheLeopard

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New to the forum. Looks like it is a lot of help. I'm a virgin, yes I said it and I'm a junior in college. I'm looking to get rid of the label. A girl, who is good looking and probably out of my league has been asking about me to my friend and IMed me the other day asking me why she hasn't seen me out (I go out a good deal, but I haven't seen her either...I guess we got different places).

Now what is the plan? Should I start talking to her more and more on the computer, besides seeing her when I do in person?

She isn't the relationship type, and I'm fine with that. But she could put out a little and for college I'll take it.

So what is my plan? Just wait for her to be out when I'm out? Any tips for when I see her out? What to say to her? Tips to getting her back? (should I bring her back to my place or ask her if she wants to go to her place)?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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S0LID

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If you think shes out of your league your status is below hers and you havnt even started yet!
 

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Originally posted by TheLeopard
New to the forum. Looks like it is a lot of help. I'm a virgin, yes I said it and I'm a junior in college. I'm looking to get rid of the label. A girl, who is good looking and probably out of my league has been asking about me to my friend and IMed me the other day asking me why she hasn't seen me out (I go out a good deal, but I haven't seen her either...I guess we got different places).

Now what is the plan? Should I start talking to her more and more on the computer, besides seeing her when I do in person?

She isn't the relationship type, and I'm fine with that. But she could put out a little and for college I'll take it.

So what is my plan? Just wait for her to be out when I'm out? Any tips for when I see her out? What to say to her? Tips to getting her back? (should I bring her back to my place or ask her if she wants to go to her place)?
I guess I mis-spoke on that. She's hooked up with a decent amount of guys here and I find myself better than some and not better than some. So I have a chance here, I just need some advice on getting it to work.
 

S0LID

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When you meet her think KINO. When your talking to her, hand on her shoulder, escalate to a kiss. When your talking to her use a seductive voice (not johny bravo). This sh!t is so hard to explain on here.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I think your plan should be to focus on other women. Well do that while making advances on this one...

SMS her... get her number and ask her out to do something fun. If she isn't in to it then no worries - you have other women to do things with...
 

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don't forget to helmet up, and inspect the playing field :woo:
 
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