"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tips when clubbing

wildchild

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I found that eye contact and a big smile is hugely important when picking women trying to pickup women at night clubs, do you guys have any other tips that could be useful when sarging at a nightclub?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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TheLazy

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i dunno... eye contact and big smile could be important in all other situations too lol.
 

wildchild

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The reason I said the smiling thing was just to get you guys to give me input, I know smiling is an obvious one:) What about this for a neg hit "Let me get you a drink" and get her a glass of water.
 

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I must admit I could use tips on club openers......The music is always too loud in clubs to go in with a sutle opener......You dont just walk up to some one and say "EXCUSE ME, CAN I GET YOUR OPINION ON SOMETHING!!!".


I have used bump tactics before.....walking into a girl and starting a convo from that. I have tried at the bar in clubs too but its always so busy and people just push like a *****....
 

wildchild

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In a club at the weekend picked up a HB she was prolly a 8. I cant remember exactly what I said as an opener I think it was something like 'youve been checkin me out all night, Dont be shy, you should just make a move' Then she walked away and I went up to her again and just started chatting to her. She said are you going to buy me a drink I replied 'If you get me one first' To cut a long story short I was making out with her for about 2 hours she was going to come back to mines and her m8s were totally **** blocking me, any tips on dealing with **** block mates? Eventually we were outside waiting for a taxi to come to mine, i turned my back to chat to another chick for 5mins then i see her m8s dragging her down the street, I couldnt be arsed running after her but next time if shes at the same club ill definatly be taking her home.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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