"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Tips when clubbing

wildchild

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I found that eye contact and a big smile is hugely important when picking women trying to pickup women at night clubs, do you guys have any other tips that could be useful when sarging at a nightclub?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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TheLazy

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i dunno... eye contact and big smile could be important in all other situations too lol.
 

wildchild

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The reason I said the smiling thing was just to get you guys to give me input, I know smiling is an obvious one:) What about this for a neg hit "Let me get you a drink" and get her a glass of water.
 

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I must admit I could use tips on club openers......The music is always too loud in clubs to go in with a sutle opener......You dont just walk up to some one and say "EXCUSE ME, CAN I GET YOUR OPINION ON SOMETHING!!!".


I have used bump tactics before.....walking into a girl and starting a convo from that. I have tried at the bar in clubs too but its always so busy and people just push like a *****....
 

wildchild

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In a club at the weekend picked up a HB she was prolly a 8. I cant remember exactly what I said as an opener I think it was something like 'youve been checkin me out all night, Dont be shy, you should just make a move' Then she walked away and I went up to her again and just started chatting to her. She said are you going to buy me a drink I replied 'If you get me one first' To cut a long story short I was making out with her for about 2 hours she was going to come back to mines and her m8s were totally **** blocking me, any tips on dealing with **** block mates? Eventually we were outside waiting for a taxi to come to mine, i turned my back to chat to another chick for 5mins then i see her m8s dragging her down the street, I couldnt be arsed running after her but next time if shes at the same club ill definatly be taking her home.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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