"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ok backstory:

she blew me off a long time ago.. i've been seeing her every now and then and usually each time i do she won't talk much in person but then she'll either send me a text or send me a message online about how it was good seeing me last night and whatever...

saw her last night and she kept saying **** to me about how something wasn't nice... i don't know i was really talking to her friend so i wasn't really coherant all that much of what she had to say...

the truth is i want to see if i can still at least get her back for a hate ****... so my question is if at all should i say anything to her in the form of a message being nice to her but blunt at the same time so it doesn't look like i'm all over her and was ecstatic to see her last night?

any tips are welcome! im just sorta confused now since i really didn't want to talk to her much after she blew me off when we were seeing each other for a bit.. but she still talks to me a little bit.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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cliff notes: girl stopped talking to me because she wanted some other dude.. i can tell she still wants to talk to me but i don't give her the time of day.. should i maybe and see what comes of it? maybe i can get a sex session in? :D let me know
 
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What's the point of mental masturbation? If she doesn't want to talk to you because she's interested in another guy, what makes you think she's going to **** you? She's moving on, but doesn't want to come right out and say it, because it makes her look bad. Instead she's hoping you get the hint. Your only option should be to move on, just like she has.
 
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DUDE, SHE'S NOT INTERESTED, MOVE ON!!!!!!!!
WHAT YOUR THINKING OF DOING WILL MAKE THE SITUATION
MORE F#@KED THAN IT ALREADY IS!

Sorry I had to shout but you need to get the message.
 
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