Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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ok backstory:

she blew me off a long time ago.. i've been seeing her every now and then and usually each time i do she won't talk much in person but then she'll either send me a text or send me a message online about how it was good seeing me last night and whatever...

saw her last night and she kept saying **** to me about how something wasn't nice... i don't know i was really talking to her friend so i wasn't really coherant all that much of what she had to say...

the truth is i want to see if i can still at least get her back for a hate ****... so my question is if at all should i say anything to her in the form of a message being nice to her but blunt at the same time so it doesn't look like i'm all over her and was ecstatic to see her last night?

any tips are welcome! im just sorta confused now since i really didn't want to talk to her much after she blew me off when we were seeing each other for a bit.. but she still talks to me a little bit.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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cliff notes: girl stopped talking to me because she wanted some other dude.. i can tell she still wants to talk to me but i don't give her the time of day.. should i maybe and see what comes of it? maybe i can get a sex session in? :D let me know
 
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What's the point of mental masturbation? If she doesn't want to talk to you because she's interested in another guy, what makes you think she's going to **** you? She's moving on, but doesn't want to come right out and say it, because it makes her look bad. Instead she's hoping you get the hint. Your only option should be to move on, just like she has.
 
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DUDE, SHE'S NOT INTERESTED, MOVE ON!!!!!!!!
WHAT YOUR THINKING OF DOING WILL MAKE THE SITUATION
MORE F#@KED THAN IT ALREADY IS!

Sorry I had to shout but you need to get the message.
 
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