"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Tips to get girls online to come to your house

Immaculate

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Ok OK, don't give me grief

You all know I work 6 days a week and I can't be sarging all the time but I'm making some serious progress on match and myspace.

I just need this advice:

How do I get a girl (who likes me after several emails) to come over to my house? I mean with all the psychos in the world she must be scared .. but how can I do it smoothly? I'm no psycho I'm a nice friggin guy... I just want her to come over.
There's this one girl I'm talking to who lives a few miles away. What's a good email or phone tip to get her over ??
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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You're trying to miss an important step in the process. You may have rapport with these women however they have not become comfortable with you. Meeting at a neutral place will help get you there (if you're good). But then there's that whole chemistry thing....
 

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She won't go to your house before meeting you in a public place...unless she's insane. No sane girl would go to a guy's house she has never met face to face before. Ask her to meet you someplace public so she'll feel safe. Then, if she likes you she might go to your house after she trusts you.
 

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Yeah, I agree with the others. That has creepy written all over it.
 

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Talk with the girl on the phone, set up a time and place to meet - the sooner you set the date the better (think same day or next day). You can meet at a local mall, coffee shop or bar, or just pick them up at their place (I've pick up girls many times at their house). Then, take them to wherever you've discussed ahead of time. After that, ask her to your place to relax and talk, or watch a movie, or don't offer a reason if she doesn't ask "why do you want us to go to your house?"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This is kind of like the guy asking for advice trying to pick up girls driving around in his car.

It just screams dirty old man.
 

ER!C L!VE

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Originally posted by MacAvoy
This is kind of like the guy asking for advice trying to pick up girls driving around in his car.

It just screams dirty old man.
Naw bro, this is nothing like sarging a playground swingset using the Barney Method (BM) and running Gummy Bear (GB) / Twizzler (T) routines.
 

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I've done it before-

This myspace girl came over without meeting once, just talking on the phone.

It's possible! So she was insane? She seemed normal. Maybe she knew kung fu or something.
 

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Ah I forgot to mention another technique that works. Give them a good reason why it would benefit them to come to your place. Alcohol and/or drugs (yea, yea, fvck off if you don't approve) see your new big screen TV, see a dead body... you know... stuff they want and don't have immediate access to. Fvck, if she's a nerdy chick, tell her you have the newest, coolest video game out...you get my drift.
 

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Originally posted by MacAvoy
This is kind of like the guy asking for advice trying to pick up girls driving around in his car.

It just screams dirty old man.
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Immaculate
How do I get a girl (who likes me after several emails) to come over to my house? I mean with all the psychos in the world she must be scared ..
What about her? shouldn't you be scared that she might be a psycho?

That is why for your sake and her's you should meet with her in a public place to determine who you are dealing with.

DjDamage
 

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Re: Re: Tips to get girls online to come to your house

Originally posted by DJDamage
What about her? shouldn't you be scared that she might be a psycho?

That is why for your sake and her's you should meet with her in a public place to determine who you are dealing with.

DjDamage
Wow, theres actually a voice of sanity out here in cyberspace. Damage makes a good point, in hindsight, I wish many of the psychos I banged didn't know where I live, or parked my car actually.
 

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There a few guys that take this approach and discuss it on the DYD advanced/meeting women online programs. The key is their perception. They believe it and assume it with their actions, so it becomes reality.

Personally, I like meeting for a drink and a game of pool or darts first. But there's no doubt in my mind that this can be done. It's striking to me just how desperate a lot of these online chicks really are.
 

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i've run through this routine numerous times with myspace chicks. 5-10 emails, a couple of phone calls, and she's over here. she's coming over to the pad for a reason. to get fukked. you can do all of your major qualifying over the phone and with emails. if she arrives and it's a no-go for you, bfd.

the point is to get them to your pad. you ain't gonna fukk her playing darts.
 

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Re: Re: Re: Tips to get girls online to come to your house

Originally posted by MacAvoy
Wow, theres actually a voice of sanity out here in cyberspace. Damage makes a good point, in hindsight, I wish many of the psychos I banged didn't know where I live, or parked my car actually.
:crackup: So, So true.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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double
 
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i live in a controlled access condo. you need a code for the guest parking. then i have to buzz them in to get into the elevator lobby. owner parking is totally separate with it's own code.

it's all very bulletproof. :cheer: :cheer: :cheer:
 

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Originally posted by ER!C L!VE
Naw bro, this is nothing like sarging a playground swingset using the Barney Method (BM) and running Gummy Bear (GB) / Twizzler (T) routines.

funny and sick
 
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