"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
tips on picking up girls who cant speak english?
- Thread starter wildchild
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ChenCristos
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flyinshark
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Joe The Homophobe
Master Don Juan
what works for one group might not work for the other. Different cultures etc.
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
Just wave them the cash and ask if they 'smoke'.
diplomatic_lies
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themanwithnoname
Senior Don Juan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
ChenCristos
Don Juan
Be patient and dont laugh at her sorry English
I met a Japanese girl whos English isnt too hot you just got to be chill and make her comfortable
Alpine
Master Don Juan
And if they don't understand, just say it louder, bloody foreigners.
flyinshark
Senior Don Juan
Hehe, she might actually be amused. Maybe she'll even go for it.
But seriously, you have to be patient if you are really into her. The more you talk with her, the faster she will learn english and the faster you two will connect. And when there is a connection, conversation flows so much easier despite any language obstacles.
al77
Master Don Juan
I am assuming they are in your country where official language is English, then they are speking at least some English.
First of all you want to be understood, so:
- Speak slower than you usually do, so she can understand you
- Dont mumble, try not to at least when sepaking to her
- Dont use idioms and slang - it is likely she would not get it
- Dont apply your own accent if it happens you have one
Now you are understood. Tell her you teach American\Canadian\Australian <your country> culture of conversation.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Spiky
Don Juan
1. If they ask you to slow down as you speak, dont slow down. If you do they become more engaged in translating than listening to you. If you speak normally they become attracted to your voice.
2. Sing songs, do impressions, make hand gestures, make funny faces, etc. Do physical rather than verbal actions to get attraction.
3. Comfort is very hard to build. Try just spending time with them lying down and watching TV or something. Talk softly and smile at them alot.
4. When escalating you have to be VERY carefull. Get your face very close and make sure theres sexual tension before you kiss her. Dont try something like kiss bet or spin kiss.
5. Hug them alot, the whole way through the PU. Stretch your arms out, say 'aaawwwwww' and give them huge hugs.