"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
tips on picking up girls who cant speak english?
- Thread starter wildchild
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
ChenCristos
Don Juan
flyinshark
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iveyleeger
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Note: In some countries the index finger is used in place of the thumb.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Joe The Homophobe
Master Don Juan
what works for one group might not work for the other. Different cultures etc.
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
Just wave them the cash and ask if they 'smoke'.
diplomatic_lies
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themanwithnoname
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
ChenCristos
Don Juan
Be patient and dont laugh at her sorry English
I met a Japanese girl whos English isnt too hot you just got to be chill and make her comfortable
Alpine
Master Don Juan
And if they don't understand, just say it louder, bloody foreigners.
flyinshark
Senior Don Juan
Hehe, she might actually be amused. Maybe she'll even go for it.
But seriously, you have to be patient if you are really into her. The more you talk with her, the faster she will learn english and the faster you two will connect. And when there is a connection, conversation flows so much easier despite any language obstacles.
al77
Master Don Juan
I am assuming they are in your country where official language is English, then they are speking at least some English.
First of all you want to be understood, so:
- Speak slower than you usually do, so she can understand you
- Dont mumble, try not to at least when sepaking to her
- Dont use idioms and slang - it is likely she would not get it
- Dont apply your own accent if it happens you have one
Now you are understood. Tell her you teach American\Canadian\Australian <your country> culture of conversation.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Spiky
Don Juan
1. If they ask you to slow down as you speak, dont slow down. If you do they become more engaged in translating than listening to you. If you speak normally they become attracted to your voice.
2. Sing songs, do impressions, make hand gestures, make funny faces, etc. Do physical rather than verbal actions to get attraction.
3. Comfort is very hard to build. Try just spending time with them lying down and watching TV or something. Talk softly and smile at them alot.
4. When escalating you have to be VERY carefull. Get your face very close and make sure theres sexual tension before you kiss her. Dont try something like kiss bet or spin kiss.
5. Hug them alot, the whole way through the PU. Stretch your arms out, say 'aaawwwwww' and give them huge hugs.