"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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StateOfMind

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Im joining the Air Force and plan on saving pretty much most of my earnings.
I want to be able to be a millionaire by the time i retire(20-25 years) I want to be able to get that nice $600,000 house off by the lake(I want to retire in texas, texas homes are huge once they get in the 350's)
Be able to have expendable income like crazy, go on vacations whenever i please, open a local small business with expendable cash.

Ill save in many ways,
-Eat as much as i can in cafe's on base(I heard its free of charge)
-Buy a used car, if i can, from a bank(Good deal, NICE car) or just off a lot(Spend no more than 6-9K)
-Dont get a GF, just have a single life(No strings attatched relationships)
-Limit going out and spending for useless things.
-Dont finance ANYTHING, only buy cash.




Theres more but these are the main things I think i need to avoid/do.
I want to have a life but Im sure i can do that without spending more than 400-500 a month(on strictly entertaintment, random things)

Now with all that saving, what can I do with that money that will generate more cash. Obviously there are IRA, roth.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Bible_Belt

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the retirement pension is only half of whatever rank you retire at.

And they're going to take away that deal, too. The military budget is about to face serious cuts, and it's always pay and benefits to soldiers that are the first to be cut, especially retirees.
 
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