"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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tips on how to become more patient?

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big weezy said:
you mentioned i should wait 10-15 days to see if she contacts me..

The thing is if I NC and she doesn't get in contact and then I do, won't it seem as if I caved in and grovelling back?

Secondly, if she does contact me it's going to be a 'hey how r u?' Type of text, should I act uninterested and make her work more to regain my interest again?

Like force her to offer a time to meet up, and then I should act wishy washy uninterested till she offers a firm time and day cos I can see.a flake coming on if I agree too quickly given her current back and forths with me.
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+1 to mahoney, he hit the nail on the head! NC is misleading, because while it is a tool to *try* to raise her interest level back up, it is also an escape for YOU. It gives YOU the opportunity to step back, assess the situation, and PURSUE OTHER GIRLS. That way, you won't be so caught up with this one!

It's not groveling. If she texts you some boring crap asking how you are, just reply with something funny, and do NOT get dragged into these long texting conversations. Then, after a few days, make plans to hang out. That's it, no conversation. Just plans. Then, you find out if she's interested or not.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ARrocket said:
+1 to mahoney, he hit the nail on the head! NC is misleading, because while it is a tool to *try* to raise her interest level back up, it is also an escape for YOU. It gives YOU the opportunity to step back, assess the situation, and PURSUE OTHER GIRLS. That way, you won't be so caught up with this one!

It's not groveling. If she texts you some boring crap asking how you are, just reply with something funny, and do NOT get dragged into these long texting conversations. Then, after a few days, make plans to hang out. That's it, no conversation. Just plans. Then, you find out if she's interested or not.
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no i mean it's grovelling if i recontact her after 10-15 days letting her know she still has me.. i followed what you did, tried to make plans to hang out.. not chit chat.. no other crap. no response.

i feel like i shouldn't have contacted at all.. she never recontacted me so obviously she wasn't interested and just enjoyed me chasing.

i think in future it's better to not bother contacting her at all if she doesn't follow up with a firm offer of a time.
 
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If she is not talking to you, she is definitely talking to someone else. Spin the plates :rockon: ...

Dont be her puppet, let her beg you for a date
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