"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Tips on getting laid in Japan???

Greasy Pig

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My bro (aged 35) and my newly single self have decided to go to Japan in October.
Not only do I see it as an interesting place to visit, but I'd love to knock the back out of a few Japanese women while I'm there.
One guy told me the Jap girls love tall western men (my bro and I are about 185cm [6ft 2in] and 100kg [220 pounds]).
Is it relatively good hunting grounds for westerners? Any tips? Do many women know English? I'm brushing up on my basic Japanese.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Cloudtopsun2100

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I've been to Kyoto, Nagoya, Osaka and Tokyo. (Tokyo is great but you should try to spend more time in Osaka) You definitely wanna check out Nagoya too as there are less foreign dudes there and you get a better reception! Its true that you need to know some Japanese so study hard before you go so you can not only communicate with hot girls but also get around and have a better experience. Katakana is pretty important and not that hard to learn as restaurant menus feature alot of katakana for all the foreign loan words. Hep 5 in Osaka is a really cool mall with lots to do nearby and a ferris wheel that someone I know closed on.
 

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I was in a decent sized Japanese city for a few days...was no easier than the US...but I here in Tokyo you can clean up in Rappingi district area bars.... Not sure...

Jap girls are hot though...I hooked up with one visiting in Taiwan and she was into some really kinky stuff just like those crazy Japan porno flicks....I freakin love Asia though in general....you should have a blast...Tokyo is supposed to be pretty crazy....
 

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Hey guys, just bumping this. We've been here a day and people are quite friendly but the women seem very very shy. Have tried engaging with basic Japanese but it's proving tough to get past "hello" and "do you speak English?"
We're hitting some clubs tonight in Shinjuku, so will report back. Will definitely try Osaka and Roppongi.
Any other tips most welcome!
 

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You need very little game to get J-girls. Love hotels are the place to be. One reason is they are quick. Believe it or not, if you pull a girl from a club, her main concern is getting back in time before her friends think she left with a guy.

Tell her you think she's pretty, suggest you leave together, promise she'll be back within two hours, all within the same breath.

Be playful (smile a lot), be confident, and ASSUME the close. She'll follow.

Ideally you'll know where a few love hotels are before you ask, as you don't want to break the mood.

"C'mon, let's go have some fun! (smile, head nod ) We'll be back in an hour or two, nobody will know!"

kimi ga kirei desu! (you are pretty)

Isshoni asobini ikimasen ka? (let's go have some fun)

ni jikan dake kakaru yo! (only take two hours)

dare mo shiranai yo! (nobody will know)

isshoni tanoshimasshyoo! (I want to have fun together)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Greasy Pig

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You need very little game to get J-girls. Love hotels are the place to be. One reason is they are quick. Believe it or not, if you pull a girl from a club, her main concern is getting back in time before her friends think she left with a guy.

Tell her you think she's pretty, suggest you leave together, promise she'll be back within two hours, all within the same breath.

Be playful (smile a lot), be confident, and ASSUME the close. She'll follow.

Ideally you'll know where a few love hotels are before you ask, as you don't want to break the mood.

"C'mon, let's go have some fun! (smile, head nod ) We'll be back in an hour or two, nobody will know!"

kimi ga kirei desu! (you are pretty)

Isshoni asobini ikimasen ka? (let's go have some fun)

ni jikan dake kakaru yo! (only take two hours)

dare mo shiranai yo! (nobody will know)

isshoni tanoshimasshyoo! (I want to have fun together)
That's gold, taiyuu! Thanks man. I'll report back with results.
 

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One thing I remember while I was there was all the clubs seemed to hold 'model nights'. The place I was in had a modelling agency hire out the VIP area in this club and it was full of western models. I just spent my time cracking onto them.. pretty pointless me going over to Japan to hang out with westerners though, haha.

I do remember English wasn't as widely spoken as I'd hoped but hey, you can work around that.
 

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Tokyo is similar to gaming in Seoul. I just spent 2 years coaching there. It's the same game. Learn to ask if they speak English in Japanese. Have fun, be the life of the party, and don't try to make out in front of her friends. Asian is a very "save face" society, so the girls will be freaky when you get them alone, but shy if they're still in public.

The dude a few posts above me nailed it. Asian game is fu-uunnnnnnn.
 
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