"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Tips on getting laid in Japan???

Greasy Pig

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My bro (aged 35) and my newly single self have decided to go to Japan in October.
Not only do I see it as an interesting place to visit, but I'd love to knock the back out of a few Japanese women while I'm there.
One guy told me the Jap girls love tall western men (my bro and I are about 185cm [6ft 2in] and 100kg [220 pounds]).
Is it relatively good hunting grounds for westerners? Any tips? Do many women know English? I'm brushing up on my basic Japanese.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Cloudtopsun2100

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I've been to Kyoto, Nagoya, Osaka and Tokyo. (Tokyo is great but you should try to spend more time in Osaka) You definitely wanna check out Nagoya too as there are less foreign dudes there and you get a better reception! Its true that you need to know some Japanese so study hard before you go so you can not only communicate with hot girls but also get around and have a better experience. Katakana is pretty important and not that hard to learn as restaurant menus feature alot of katakana for all the foreign loan words. Hep 5 in Osaka is a really cool mall with lots to do nearby and a ferris wheel that someone I know closed on.
 

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I was in a decent sized Japanese city for a few days...was no easier than the US...but I here in Tokyo you can clean up in Rappingi district area bars.... Not sure...

Jap girls are hot though...I hooked up with one visiting in Taiwan and she was into some really kinky stuff just like those crazy Japan porno flicks....I freakin love Asia though in general....you should have a blast...Tokyo is supposed to be pretty crazy....
 

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Hey guys, just bumping this. We've been here a day and people are quite friendly but the women seem very very shy. Have tried engaging with basic Japanese but it's proving tough to get past "hello" and "do you speak English?"
We're hitting some clubs tonight in Shinjuku, so will report back. Will definitely try Osaka and Roppongi.
Any other tips most welcome!
 

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You need very little game to get J-girls. Love hotels are the place to be. One reason is they are quick. Believe it or not, if you pull a girl from a club, her main concern is getting back in time before her friends think she left with a guy.

Tell her you think she's pretty, suggest you leave together, promise she'll be back within two hours, all within the same breath.

Be playful (smile a lot), be confident, and ASSUME the close. She'll follow.

Ideally you'll know where a few love hotels are before you ask, as you don't want to break the mood.

"C'mon, let's go have some fun! (smile, head nod ) We'll be back in an hour or two, nobody will know!"

kimi ga kirei desu! (you are pretty)

Isshoni asobini ikimasen ka? (let's go have some fun)

ni jikan dake kakaru yo! (only take two hours)

dare mo shiranai yo! (nobody will know)

isshoni tanoshimasshyoo! (I want to have fun together)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Greasy Pig

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You need very little game to get J-girls. Love hotels are the place to be. One reason is they are quick. Believe it or not, if you pull a girl from a club, her main concern is getting back in time before her friends think she left with a guy.

Tell her you think she's pretty, suggest you leave together, promise she'll be back within two hours, all within the same breath.

Be playful (smile a lot), be confident, and ASSUME the close. She'll follow.

Ideally you'll know where a few love hotels are before you ask, as you don't want to break the mood.

"C'mon, let's go have some fun! (smile, head nod ) We'll be back in an hour or two, nobody will know!"

kimi ga kirei desu! (you are pretty)

Isshoni asobini ikimasen ka? (let's go have some fun)

ni jikan dake kakaru yo! (only take two hours)

dare mo shiranai yo! (nobody will know)

isshoni tanoshimasshyoo! (I want to have fun together)
That's gold, taiyuu! Thanks man. I'll report back with results.
 

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One thing I remember while I was there was all the clubs seemed to hold 'model nights'. The place I was in had a modelling agency hire out the VIP area in this club and it was full of western models. I just spent my time cracking onto them.. pretty pointless me going over to Japan to hang out with westerners though, haha.

I do remember English wasn't as widely spoken as I'd hoped but hey, you can work around that.
 

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Tokyo is similar to gaming in Seoul. I just spent 2 years coaching there. It's the same game. Learn to ask if they speak English in Japanese. Have fun, be the life of the party, and don't try to make out in front of her friends. Asian is a very "save face" society, so the girls will be freaky when you get them alone, but shy if they're still in public.

The dude a few posts above me nailed it. Asian game is fu-uunnnnnnn.
 
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