Yeah .. I've went down twice and she told me that she feels like she would be forcing herself to do it and that it just doesn't feel right for her to go down on me. What a load of horse sh*t. Someone explain how I can make her feel more comfortable or whatever I have to do because I'm confused.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Tips on getting her to go down
- Thread starter faiNt`
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Sir Psycho Sexy
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Get her drunk for the first time, maybe she will realize its not so bad..
Are you having sex with this girl? Its possible to put bjs on the backburner if your still getting her a$$. She will become more comfortable with your d1ck in her body and more accepting to the idea of her getting on her knees for you.
I would also stop going down on her. Dont give her that pleasure if shes unwilling to return the favor. Just use the fingas my nigga
Get her drunk for the first time, maybe she will realize its not so bad..
Are you having sex with this girl? Its possible to put bjs on the backburner if your still getting her a$$. She will become more comfortable with your d1ck in her body and more accepting to the idea of her getting on her knees for you.
I would also stop going down on her. Dont give her that pleasure if shes unwilling to return the favor. Just use the fingas my nigga
eaglez1177
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God I hate when girls pull this bs. DO NOT go back down on her if she isnt returning the favor!! Hopefully she'll use her brain and realize that your not gonna do anything for her if she isnt returning the favor. I wouldnt even finger her either; just stay away from it completely. On top of that, act as if your losing interest in her. That way she will wanna give you head to keep things spiced up. She'll be goin crazy over it all, and she is going to want things the way they were before, so to do that, shes gonna return the favor to keep things going.faiNt` said:
And DO NOT ask her to give you head. That is just really pathetic and desperate. Guys that do that NEVER wind up getting head from the girl.
EDIT: and lol @ Vit
Getting head .. oral sex .. blow job etcVitanoid said:
She's a tank and doesn't like drinking anyway. I feel there's a natural progression such as makeout, upstairs, downstairs, oral, then sex. I can't see her having sex with me before oral.Sir Psycho Sexy said:
Advice taken .. I won't do it for her till she starts to get how it works.
So I don't ask .. she would have to initiate it then .. alright, I'll try that.eaglez1177 said:
Tell her to do it instead of ask? I'm not sure ...
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
thedude4242
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if a girl aint giving you head by now you just are not going to get it. shaved your ass pubic hairs if u have not already. the heck with eating her stuff. usually you hook-up with a girl she will do it the first time.
"I feel there's a natural progression such as makeout, upstairs, downstairs, oral, then sex. I can't see her having sex with me before oral."
not true. Some girls just refuse to give head. I felt the same way with my girl, but then we talked about it and she was like id rather go straight to sex. Definately stop eating her out though
not true. Some girls just refuse to give head. I felt the same way with my girl, but then we talked about it and she was like id rather go straight to sex. Definately stop eating her out though
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NEVER use words like never and always...It's not an absolute truth.eaglez1177 said:
Dude, if she has that kind of attitude about it and getting sucked off is important to you, you are going to have to find someone else. If she feels that strongly about it, it's not worth the effort because she won't be that into it if you ever convince her to give you head. She may do it once or twice to appease you, but it's not gonna be a regular thing.
Here's my advice for you if you really want head. Get some ribs removed. If I was as ugly as you, I wouldn't expect any girl to want to suck me off either.
Personally I just don't think she's ready yet due to never having done it before. I've gone the farther out of us two, and the farthest of any guy with her, which is, I'm guessing, why she's hesitant.YogurtSlinger said:NEVER use words like never and always...It's not an absolute truth.
Dude, if she has that kind of attitude about it and getting sucked off is important to you, you are going to have to find someone else. If she feels that strongly about it, it's not worth the effort because she won't be that into it if you ever convince her to give you head. She may do it once or twice to appease you, but it's not gonna be a regular thing.
Here's my advice for you if you really want head. Get some ribs removed. If I was as ugly as you, I wouldn't expect any girl to want to suck me off either.
Funny comment at the end .. maybe it's true
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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So what, theres a first time for everything. If you lose your patience, move on to the next one.faiNt` said:Personally I just don't think she's ready yet due to never having done it before. I've gone the farther out of us two, and the farthest of any guy with her, which is, I'm guessing, why she's hesitant.
Funny comment at the end .. maybe it's true
Yes, let her initiate it. And no, DO NOT "tell her" to do it. That will come off as being too forceful, not to mention it will still come off as desperate and needy. If she still doesnt initiate after what I said to do before, NEXT HER.faiNt' said: