Yeah .. I've went down twice and she told me that she feels like she would be forcing herself to do it and that it just doesn't feel right for her to go down on me. What a load of horse sh*t. Someone explain how I can make her feel more comfortable or whatever I have to do because I'm confused.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Tips on getting her to go down
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Sir Psycho Sexy
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Get her drunk for the first time, maybe she will realize its not so bad..
Are you having sex with this girl? Its possible to put bjs on the backburner if your still getting her a$$. She will become more comfortable with your d1ck in her body and more accepting to the idea of her getting on her knees for you.
I would also stop going down on her. Dont give her that pleasure if shes unwilling to return the favor. Just use the fingas my nigga
Get her drunk for the first time, maybe she will realize its not so bad..
Are you having sex with this girl? Its possible to put bjs on the backburner if your still getting her a$$. She will become more comfortable with your d1ck in her body and more accepting to the idea of her getting on her knees for you.
I would also stop going down on her. Dont give her that pleasure if shes unwilling to return the favor. Just use the fingas my nigga
eaglez1177
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God I hate when girls pull this bs. DO NOT go back down on her if she isnt returning the favor!! Hopefully she'll use her brain and realize that your not gonna do anything for her if she isnt returning the favor. I wouldnt even finger her either; just stay away from it completely. On top of that, act as if your losing interest in her. That way she will wanna give you head to keep things spiced up. She'll be goin crazy over it all, and she is going to want things the way they were before, so to do that, shes gonna return the favor to keep things going.faiNt` said:
And DO NOT ask her to give you head. That is just really pathetic and desperate. Guys that do that NEVER wind up getting head from the girl.
EDIT: and lol @ Vit
Getting head .. oral sex .. blow job etcVitanoid said:
She's a tank and doesn't like drinking anyway. I feel there's a natural progression such as makeout, upstairs, downstairs, oral, then sex. I can't see her having sex with me before oral.Sir Psycho Sexy said:
Advice taken .. I won't do it for her till she starts to get how it works.
So I don't ask .. she would have to initiate it then .. alright, I'll try that.eaglez1177 said:
Tell her to do it instead of ask? I'm not sure ...
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
thedude4242
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if a girl aint giving you head by now you just are not going to get it. shaved your ass pubic hairs if u have not already. the heck with eating her stuff. usually you hook-up with a girl she will do it the first time.
"I feel there's a natural progression such as makeout, upstairs, downstairs, oral, then sex. I can't see her having sex with me before oral."
not true. Some girls just refuse to give head. I felt the same way with my girl, but then we talked about it and she was like id rather go straight to sex. Definately stop eating her out though
not true. Some girls just refuse to give head. I felt the same way with my girl, but then we talked about it and she was like id rather go straight to sex. Definately stop eating her out though
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NEVER use words like never and always...It's not an absolute truth.eaglez1177 said:
Dude, if she has that kind of attitude about it and getting sucked off is important to you, you are going to have to find someone else. If she feels that strongly about it, it's not worth the effort because she won't be that into it if you ever convince her to give you head. She may do it once or twice to appease you, but it's not gonna be a regular thing.
Here's my advice for you if you really want head. Get some ribs removed. If I was as ugly as you, I wouldn't expect any girl to want to suck me off either.
Personally I just don't think she's ready yet due to never having done it before. I've gone the farther out of us two, and the farthest of any guy with her, which is, I'm guessing, why she's hesitant.YogurtSlinger said:NEVER use words like never and always...It's not an absolute truth.
Dude, if she has that kind of attitude about it and getting sucked off is important to you, you are going to have to find someone else. If she feels that strongly about it, it's not worth the effort because she won't be that into it if you ever convince her to give you head. She may do it once or twice to appease you, but it's not gonna be a regular thing.
Here's my advice for you if you really want head. Get some ribs removed. If I was as ugly as you, I wouldn't expect any girl to want to suck me off either.
Funny comment at the end .. maybe it's true
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
eaglez1177
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So what, theres a first time for everything. If you lose your patience, move on to the next one.faiNt` said:Personally I just don't think she's ready yet due to never having done it before. I've gone the farther out of us two, and the farthest of any guy with her, which is, I'm guessing, why she's hesitant.
Funny comment at the end .. maybe it's true
Yes, let her initiate it. And no, DO NOT "tell her" to do it. That will come off as being too forceful, not to mention it will still come off as desperate and needy. If she still doesnt initiate after what I said to do before, NEXT HER.faiNt' said: