"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tips on End Game??

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godjwood

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Beginning:

So i have great game in the beginning i can attract a girl get her attention play all those dumb games. Get a first date or hangout w/the girl I want whatever. For the most part.

Middle Game:

So we go out on a few dates hangout do w/e go out to eat, movies, party, usual typical stuff. I can usually have a girl liking me at that pt.

End Game:

This is where it all falls apart for me. Girl just loses interest, recently I've noticed and my roommate has said I give 'that girl' whoever it is too much attention and she probably loses interest b/c there's no more 'chase' Any advice on this Don Juans? How the hell do u keep the attention and keep things going??

I'm currently running my theory w/this girl right now and i've noticed i think i give too much attention to her ask her to hangout etc. (Go for a run, help her w/hmw., go to a movie, etc. etc. )

*This has happened time and again, Just recently this girl was so into me i went to Europe she missed me like crazy we hungout a few times when i got back and it just fell apart.....1st time we hungout she was into me, 2nd time she was reserved, 3rd time i asked what was up she said it wasn't gonna workout...... wow i accomplished failing at my end game quickly w/that one
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Damian

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Incorporate your current middle game into your beginning. By the time you get into middle game, the girl should already like you. Middle game is about forming comfort and trust, so Last Minute Resistance is reduced. Middle game can also be called the relationship or comfort phase.

End game occurs in the bedroom. It involves using kino escalation and take-aways to get sex. That's all.

If your friend is correct, I suggest you create some distance. Remember to take the superior position in the relationship. A big mistake that people make is to forget to be the alpha and start seeking approval from the woman after the initial attraction phase. I suggest you look into the Mystery Method. It'll tell you more than I care to explain.

-Damian
 
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diablo

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As stated in the description, DJ Tips is for giving tips, not asking for them. Moved to DJD.
 
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