"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Tips on End Game??

godjwood

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Beginning:

So i have great game in the beginning i can attract a girl get her attention play all those dumb games. Get a first date or hangout w/the girl I want whatever. For the most part.

Middle Game:

So we go out on a few dates hangout do w/e go out to eat, movies, party, usual typical stuff. I can usually have a girl liking me at that pt.

End Game:

This is where it all falls apart for me. Girl just loses interest, recently I've noticed and my roommate has said I give 'that girl' whoever it is too much attention and she probably loses interest b/c there's no more 'chase' Any advice on this Don Juans? How the hell do u keep the attention and keep things going??

I'm currently running my theory w/this girl right now and i've noticed i think i give too much attention to her ask her to hangout etc. (Go for a run, help her w/hmw., go to a movie, etc. etc. )

*This has happened time and again, Just recently this girl was so into me i went to Europe she missed me like crazy we hungout a few times when i got back and it just fell apart.....1st time we hungout she was into me, 2nd time she was reserved, 3rd time i asked what was up she said it wasn't gonna workout...... wow i accomplished failing at my end game quickly w/that one
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Damian

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Incorporate your current middle game into your beginning. By the time you get into middle game, the girl should already like you. Middle game is about forming comfort and trust, so Last Minute Resistance is reduced. Middle game can also be called the relationship or comfort phase.

End game occurs in the bedroom. It involves using kino escalation and take-aways to get sex. That's all.

If your friend is correct, I suggest you create some distance. Remember to take the superior position in the relationship. A big mistake that people make is to forget to be the alpha and start seeking approval from the woman after the initial attraction phase. I suggest you look into the Mystery Method. It'll tell you more than I care to explain.

-Damian
 

diablo

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As stated in the description, DJ Tips is for giving tips, not asking for them. Moved to DJD.
 
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