"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Tips on Day Game?

disgustipated

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Single again, been relying on online for too may lays. NIght game/bar scene I've had a mixed bag of success with but getting up there in age is starting to make the club kind of meh...I still get out there though because it's a weak spot.

Day game I've never really got into. I see tons of hot chicks at the market shopping. Anyone particularly skilled at this? Is it as simple as approaching? Numbers? Fake it til you make it? How do you transistion from small talk to getting a number, just whip out the phone? What is something that is typically good for an ice breaker?

Best venues to approach for Day gaming?

Really trying to branch out so all avenues of poosy slaying are covered.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

scrouds

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I've recognized this as an area that needs improvement in my life, but I recommend checking out dannyfrom504's blog.

One technique that sounded like it would mesh well with my style would be to open about something, be light and fun, compliment her on something phasing it as "your boyfriend is very lucky" If she says she doesn't have one, go for the number.

If you have trouble opening, practice on everyone. Guys, girls, old, young, pretty, ugly. Its a skill that is very useful, way beyond pickup. I would practice that starting in a grocery store. Its a great starting point. Work on the stationary targets, there will always be props around to use.
 

Knight's Cross

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Produce section at your local Fresh Market, or Whole Foods, or other area good Grocer. Ask her, "Bok Choi, what is this and how do I cook it". Or I've also had luck in the peanut butter/jelly area by asking,"Jam or Jelly. What's the difference?"
Bottom line is you can't go wrong initiating a conversation. If she doesn't want the attention you'll know in 30 seconds. If she does, then great. Get the name and phone #.
It's really that easy,
KC
 
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