"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Tips on Day Game?

disgustipated

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Single again, been relying on online for too may lays. NIght game/bar scene I've had a mixed bag of success with but getting up there in age is starting to make the club kind of meh...I still get out there though because it's a weak spot.

Day game I've never really got into. I see tons of hot chicks at the market shopping. Anyone particularly skilled at this? Is it as simple as approaching? Numbers? Fake it til you make it? How do you transistion from small talk to getting a number, just whip out the phone? What is something that is typically good for an ice breaker?

Best venues to approach for Day gaming?

Really trying to branch out so all avenues of poosy slaying are covered.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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scrouds

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I've recognized this as an area that needs improvement in my life, but I recommend checking out dannyfrom504's blog.

One technique that sounded like it would mesh well with my style would be to open about something, be light and fun, compliment her on something phasing it as "your boyfriend is very lucky" If she says she doesn't have one, go for the number.

If you have trouble opening, practice on everyone. Guys, girls, old, young, pretty, ugly. Its a skill that is very useful, way beyond pickup. I would practice that starting in a grocery store. Its a great starting point. Work on the stationary targets, there will always be props around to use.
 

Knight's Cross

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Produce section at your local Fresh Market, or Whole Foods, or other area good Grocer. Ask her, "Bok Choi, what is this and how do I cook it". Or I've also had luck in the peanut butter/jelly area by asking,"Jam or Jelly. What's the difference?"
Bottom line is you can't go wrong initiating a conversation. If she doesn't want the attention you'll know in 30 seconds. If she does, then great. Get the name and phone #.
It's really that easy,
KC
 
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