"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tips on closing and making her your gf

wcknightjr

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Hey guys the subject is pretty self explanitory. See, I met a girl a few weeks ago and we've hit it off WELL to say the least. We've already spent the night together on her couch (no sex yet) and last night we tried to study for chem but after a while we ended up back at said couch making out until 2AM. She shows tonnns of interest in me and basically adores me, which is really a first for me. I'm very interested in her as well and its seems like we're right on the edge of making this official (don't worry she's not the type that just wants to date around, she likes me ) so yea i was wondering if any of you out there had some words of advice on closing the deal without sounding all high-schoolish and lame, preferably from personal experience, alright thanks a lot
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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wjh

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You're 18. Don't push it. Enjoy your single days as much as possible. But clearly you want to bed her, so keep at that. Push the sexual envelope. Take risks with her, worst that'll happen is she'll tell you to slow down, you shouldn't ASK to have sex, it should just happen, and she'll let you know by her body language when she's ready. She's probably really nervous, too. Especially if she's young and inexperienced.

If she's genuinely interested in you she'll pursue monogamy. If she's not, then who cares, have your fun and/or find someone else.

Just relax and stop thinking about it. Keep going out with your friends, don't do anything stupid, etc.
 

wcknightjr

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Hey thanks man thats a great reply, as of now she officially is my gf, and it really wasn't that big of a deal. Now to push ever so slightly onward from simply making out... any words of wisdom from the gallery?
 

DonJuanMonk

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Tip on closing and making your girlfriend:

Have sex with her.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Climax

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
DUDE, it is SOOO afc to have a gf :p
lol.


Laterz...
 

SparkleMotion

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Originally posted by wcknightjr
I'm very interested in her as well and its seems like we're right on the edge of making this official (don't worry she's not the type that just wants to date around, she likes me )
What lead you to that conclusion?

I mean, for all I know you could be right, but I would just like to know why you think that.

As for the sex, you could either PLOW! PLOW! PLOW! or just keep inching your way forward. While you're at second, without asking, try stealing your way to third and so on. If she's a virgin, it'll probably take you a couple of tries to make it to home. Unless you get her tanked off of a bottle of tequila, then her legs should open right up. (Might be 'rape', check your local laws first)
 

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just start treating her like your gf lol. put ur arm around her **** like that.
 
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