"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Tips on closing and making her your gf

wcknightjr

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Hey guys the subject is pretty self explanitory. See, I met a girl a few weeks ago and we've hit it off WELL to say the least. We've already spent the night together on her couch (no sex yet) and last night we tried to study for chem but after a while we ended up back at said couch making out until 2AM. She shows tonnns of interest in me and basically adores me, which is really a first for me. I'm very interested in her as well and its seems like we're right on the edge of making this official (don't worry she's not the type that just wants to date around, she likes me ) so yea i was wondering if any of you out there had some words of advice on closing the deal without sounding all high-schoolish and lame, preferably from personal experience, alright thanks a lot
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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wjh

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You're 18. Don't push it. Enjoy your single days as much as possible. But clearly you want to bed her, so keep at that. Push the sexual envelope. Take risks with her, worst that'll happen is she'll tell you to slow down, you shouldn't ASK to have sex, it should just happen, and she'll let you know by her body language when she's ready. She's probably really nervous, too. Especially if she's young and inexperienced.

If she's genuinely interested in you she'll pursue monogamy. If she's not, then who cares, have your fun and/or find someone else.

Just relax and stop thinking about it. Keep going out with your friends, don't do anything stupid, etc.
 

wcknightjr

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Hey thanks man thats a great reply, as of now she officially is my gf, and it really wasn't that big of a deal. Now to push ever so slightly onward from simply making out... any words of wisdom from the gallery?
 

DonJuanMonk

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Tip on closing and making your girlfriend:

Have sex with her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Climax

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
DUDE, it is SOOO afc to have a gf :p
lol.


Laterz...
 

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Originally posted by wcknightjr
I'm very interested in her as well and its seems like we're right on the edge of making this official (don't worry she's not the type that just wants to date around, she likes me )
What lead you to that conclusion?

I mean, for all I know you could be right, but I would just like to know why you think that.

As for the sex, you could either PLOW! PLOW! PLOW! or just keep inching your way forward. While you're at second, without asking, try stealing your way to third and so on. If she's a virgin, it'll probably take you a couple of tries to make it to home. Unless you get her tanked off of a bottle of tequila, then her legs should open right up. (Might be 'rape', check your local laws first)
 

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just start treating her like your gf lol. put ur arm around her **** like that.
 
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