Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Tips for Threesomes
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Ringleader41
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Viagra4Soul
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Both times they were lesbian friends/couples that 'needed a man tonight'. I was very happy to oblige, although there is serious drama attached with doing it this way - jealousy from one or other of the girls is almost guaranteed unless you are very careful to lavish attention on each equally. If one thinks you like the other more, the potential is there to have a serious blow-up.
Oh, and with lesbians, especially couples, you better know how to f#ck like your life depends on it. They don't suffer quick comes or excuses - you are a tool for their use, and the power is very much in their hands. You need to be able to service both, fully, on demand.
My experience.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Later I had a female friend who admitted in a conversation about exploring sexuality that she always wanted to be with a girl, I told her my girlfriend liked girls (same girlfriend) boom threesome.
It's all about conversation and people being comfortable with each other.
I had this butch looking asian chic who wanted one of my girlfriends. She tried to approach my girl and got shut down, then she tried to approach me with the threesome option. I told her she wasn't hot enough and got pissed and cursed us out in some asian language. It was seriously funny.
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They're most likely not troll posts. Drugs and alcohol usually are involved. Easiest way to have a threesome is to have a bisexual girlfriend. She'll be down..... with the right amount of alcohol/drugs in her system lol.Sofomore said:
Serg897
Master Don Juan
I was all for it. My plate was not. Doh! What a squandered oppurtunity.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
FrogWife
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My advice would be to find people who already have experience doing it. Maybe take your girlfriend or plate or f*ckbuddy or whatever she is to a sex club to meet someone who is already into that kind of thing. Then the two of you would know what you're doing and could bring in an "inexperienced" third later in a private setting.
Three novices sitting around trying to figure out what to do to keep a good flow going - in my opinion - wouldn't make for a very pleasurable experience.