"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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tips for telling a girl how much u care

aditya.pagar.ap

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hey guys help me out i love a girl who is in my class but is having a boyfriend but i love her a lot and i want her really bad we hav chatted many time through whatsapp but i hav never spoke to her face to face coz m scared ..........she is extremly attractive and m below average looking person......i play guitar and football.......hey guys tell me if i have a chance with her ........or even atlest a way to show her how much i care for her
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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LearningSlowly

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1. Learn what love really means (it isn't creepy clinging!)
2. Stop checking out girls on the Internet! Delete it if you have to, face to face is all that matters.
 

Alvafe

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still do what he says,
first thing you don't love her its a infatuation, or make you have a boner nothing else,

2) chatting via phone means nothing, its easy for her and not good for you go in person.

3) she is taken, if she is giving you any signal to you she are doing that to others too.

4) read the DJ bible, after that READ again

5) start to talk with other girls

and forget this one till you can control yourself at least
 

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aditya.pagar.ap said:
hey guys help me out i love a girl who is in my class but is having a boyfriend but i love her a lot and i want her really bad we hav chatted many time through whatsapp but i hav never spoke to her face to face coz m scared ..........she is extremly attractive and m below average looking person......i play guitar and football.......hey guys tell me if i have a chance with her ........or even atlest a way to show her how much i care for her
....Troll?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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