"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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tips for telling a girl how much u care

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hey guys help me out i love a girl who is in my class but is having a boyfriend but i love her a lot and i want her really bad we hav chatted many time through whatsapp but i hav never spoke to her face to face coz m scared ..........she is extremly attractive and m below average looking person......i play guitar and football.......hey guys tell me if i have a chance with her ........or even atlest a way to show her how much i care for her
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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1. Learn what love really means (it isn't creepy clinging!)
2. Stop checking out girls on the Internet! Delete it if you have to, face to face is all that matters.
 
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still do what he says,
first thing you don't love her its a infatuation, or make you have a boner nothing else,

2) chatting via phone means nothing, its easy for her and not good for you go in person.

3) she is taken, if she is giving you any signal to you she are doing that to others too.

4) read the DJ bible, after that READ again

5) start to talk with other girls

and forget this one till you can control yourself at least
 
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aditya.pagar.ap said:
hey guys help me out i love a girl who is in my class but is having a boyfriend but i love her a lot and i want her really bad we hav chatted many time through whatsapp but i hav never spoke to her face to face coz m scared ..........she is extremly attractive and m below average looking person......i play guitar and football.......hey guys tell me if i have a chance with her ........or even atlest a way to show her how much i care for her
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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