"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tips for messaging/IMing with women

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Dont use C+F that requires any bit of thinking on their part.Im serious man sometimes even the most simple jokes/banters to understand is like rocket science to girls.Save your good stuff for in person.

Watch out for them saying "lol" or "lmao".It usually doesnt mean they are laughing at all and if they just say lol without anything they have just run out of things to say
 
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oh yea, know all about that. the tricky part is getting back one word answers, or statements that have no outlet. its tricky because lets say u ask a girl a question while ur texting/iming. she could be the type that likes you but wants you to do all the initiating and will not go out of her way to see whats really good with u. otherwise if she says **** like yeah, lol, lmao, or anything along those lines you gotta play the field accordingly and depening on how much u like her choose what to say.
 
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