"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tips for messaging/IMing with women

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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619joe

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Dont use C+F that requires any bit of thinking on their part.Im serious man sometimes even the most simple jokes/banters to understand is like rocket science to girls.Save your good stuff for in person.

Watch out for them saying "lol" or "lmao".It usually doesnt mean they are laughing at all and if they just say lol without anything they have just run out of things to say
 
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oh yea, know all about that. the tricky part is getting back one word answers, or statements that have no outlet. its tricky because lets say u ask a girl a question while ur texting/iming. she could be the type that likes you but wants you to do all the initiating and will not go out of her way to see whats really good with u. otherwise if she says **** like yeah, lol, lmao, or anything along those lines you gotta play the field accordingly and depening on how much u like her choose what to say.
 
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