"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Tips for knocking women off of pedestals?

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T-Mack

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I've gone on some dates this summer with a few hotties, but I ruined the majority of them by putting them on a pedestal and not making moves. It is pretty much over for me after I realize what I've done.

Any tips or ideas for preventing this? I've started spinning more plates lately and that seems to help to some degree, but none of the plates that I'm currently seeing I would consider extremely hot... just cute.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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#1 Tip: Don't put them on the pedestal to begin with. If you do, accept defeat move on and learn from your mistake.
 
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First, examine how you're putting them on a pedestal. What are you saying? are you over complimenting?

Rule of compliments: Make sure it is personal, deep, original. Always keep it moderated.

Next time you're out with women, behave like you're the authority figure minus the arrogance.
 
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No matter how hot the chick is, remember to think she is your equal. She is just as lucky to be on a date with you, as you are with her.
 
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My advice to you would be to remember its what u THINK that makes the difference when it comes to how u act around a girl.

Basically what im saying is remember that she is no greater than you nor is she above you in any way nor is she some holy goddess that mere morals cannot touch. Shes just a GIRL! albeit perhaps a very hot one ;)

So yeah it all starts in your head! control your mind and u will be in total control.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Just imagine her redecorating your place. Saying your bedroom would look nice with a coat of pale pink. That would knock her off any pedestal.


Remember, she still shiits. Did yesterday, will tomorrow too.

Some guy, somewhere is drinking a beer happy not to put up with her shiit anymore.

If she has big tits, just think that you'd be a hell of a lot better in golf, since those big things will get in the way AND cause her back problems later in life.

think it took 2 hrs to get the face right. You wanna deal with foundation and build from there? no you're a guy, you're naturally hot like that.

Just think the next time she goes in for an oil change, the mechanic is going to tell her they need to change out her flux capacator for $200.

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scrouds said:
Just imagine her redecorating your place. Saying your bedroom would look nice with a coat of pale pink. That would knock her off any pedestal.


Remember, she still shiits. Did yesterday, will tomorrow too.

Some guy, somewhere is drinking a beer happy not to put up with her shiit anymore.

If she has big tits, just think that you'd be a hell of a lot better in golf, since those big things will get in the way AND cause her back problems later in life.

think it took 2 hrs to get the face right. You wanna deal with foundation and build from there? no you're a guy, you're naturally hot like that.

Just think the next time she goes in for an oil change, the mechanic is going to tell her they need to change out her flux capacator for $200.

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NEGS, C & F, less attention, walk away, leave her unattented sporatically, pay attention to her friends MORE than her, make statements like I JUST HATE superficial people, chics with fake boobs, cant stand girls with tons of makeup or push up bras, etc
 
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scrouds said:
Just think the next time she goes in for an oil change, the mechanic is going to tell her they need to change out her flux capacator for $200.
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Priceless. Now all you have to do is picture the girl taking a sh*t at 88 miles per hour, and there you have it... instant pedestal removal.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Thanks for the reply guys. I've realized a constant trend with my pretty boy friends who actively get laid a lot with hot women. It doesn't matter how hot the girl is... these guys always find something wrong with the girl and pick her apart.

Some examples would be a modeling photo of the girl... "she looks like s h i t in this one" would be my friends response even though the girl to me looked perfectly fine.
 
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I don't know how you can put anybody on a pedestal. Even girls that I really like, more than all others, can drive me crazy.

Don't compromise your personal values and goals for anybody. There's always something a girl can do to piss you off -- let it happen. It will put everything in perspective
 
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