"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Tips for knocking women off of pedestals?

T-Mack

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I've gone on some dates this summer with a few hotties, but I ruined the majority of them by putting them on a pedestal and not making moves. It is pretty much over for me after I realize what I've done.

Any tips or ideas for preventing this? I've started spinning more plates lately and that seems to help to some degree, but none of the plates that I'm currently seeing I would consider extremely hot... just cute.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Conquer

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#1 Tip: Don't put them on the pedestal to begin with. If you do, accept defeat move on and learn from your mistake.
 

Allurre

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First, examine how you're putting them on a pedestal. What are you saying? are you over complimenting?

Rule of compliments: Make sure it is personal, deep, original. Always keep it moderated.

Next time you're out with women, behave like you're the authority figure minus the arrogance.
 

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No matter how hot the chick is, remember to think she is your equal. She is just as lucky to be on a date with you, as you are with her.
 

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My advice to you would be to remember its what u THINK that makes the difference when it comes to how u act around a girl.

Basically what im saying is remember that she is no greater than you nor is she above you in any way nor is she some holy goddess that mere morals cannot touch. Shes just a GIRL! albeit perhaps a very hot one ;)

So yeah it all starts in your head! control your mind and u will be in total control.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Just imagine her redecorating your place. Saying your bedroom would look nice with a coat of pale pink. That would knock her off any pedestal.


Remember, she still shiits. Did yesterday, will tomorrow too.

Some guy, somewhere is drinking a beer happy not to put up with her shiit anymore.

If she has big tits, just think that you'd be a hell of a lot better in golf, since those big things will get in the way AND cause her back problems later in life.

think it took 2 hrs to get the face right. You wanna deal with foundation and build from there? no you're a guy, you're naturally hot like that.

Just think the next time she goes in for an oil change, the mechanic is going to tell her they need to change out her flux capacator for $200.

Do you need more?
 

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scrouds said:
Just imagine her redecorating your place. Saying your bedroom would look nice with a coat of pale pink. That would knock her off any pedestal.


Remember, she still shiits. Did yesterday, will tomorrow too.

Some guy, somewhere is drinking a beer happy not to put up with her shiit anymore.

If she has big tits, just think that you'd be a hell of a lot better in golf, since those big things will get in the way AND cause her back problems later in life.

think it took 2 hrs to get the face right. You wanna deal with foundation and build from there? no you're a guy, you're naturally hot like that.

Just think the next time she goes in for an oil change, the mechanic is going to tell her they need to change out her flux capacator for $200.

Do you need more?
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

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NEGS, C & F, less attention, walk away, leave her unattented sporatically, pay attention to her friends MORE than her, make statements like I JUST HATE superficial people, chics with fake boobs, cant stand girls with tons of makeup or push up bras, etc
 

thecurtainfalls

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scrouds said:
Just think the next time she goes in for an oil change, the mechanic is going to tell her they need to change out her flux capacator for $200.
Priceless. Now all you have to do is picture the girl taking a sh*t at 88 miles per hour, and there you have it... instant pedestal removal.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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T-Mack

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Thanks for the reply guys. I've realized a constant trend with my pretty boy friends who actively get laid a lot with hot women. It doesn't matter how hot the girl is... these guys always find something wrong with the girl and pick her apart.

Some examples would be a modeling photo of the girl... "she looks like s h i t in this one" would be my friends response even though the girl to me looked perfectly fine.
 

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I don't know how you can put anybody on a pedestal. Even girls that I really like, more than all others, can drive me crazy.

Don't compromise your personal values and goals for anybody. There's always something a girl can do to piss you off -- let it happen. It will put everything in perspective
 
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