CTApprentice
Don Juan
Hey guys I wondering if you could give me some last minute tips since my homecoming is tommorow.(cologne,dancing,and being social)
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Tips for homecoming?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
john paul
Senior Don Juan
dont really know if your homecoming is like my homecoming but if it is there wont be much talking and if there is you dont want to be in those groups of people standing off to the side talking,
get dancing as soon as you can and it will be a ton of fun
get dancing as soon as you can and it will be a ton of fun
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
wear anti-perspirant
I didn't and I was in the middle of everything so I had to use the bathroom to wash like 3 times lol
oh also, don't be afraid to ask girls to dance, don't expect them to just come to you... even though it does happen sometimes (I backed into a short one
).
haha.
I didn't and I was in the middle of everything so I had to use the bathroom to wash like 3 times lol
oh also, don't be afraid to ask girls to dance, don't expect them to just come to you... even though it does happen sometimes (I backed into a short one
). haha.
john paul said:
I've had tons of fun without doing too much dancing and standing with groups off to the side. It's a good starting place to pick up girls (if your going stag or don't like your date too much, or if you just wanna spin those plates) If dancing really isn't your thing suck it up if your date likes it...if she doesn't don't force it on her. My date to my senior HC and Prom didn't like dancing. We didn't stay too long at either, but I had A LOT more fun leaving then staying
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
I think there's usually a lot of AFC girls on the sidelines of the floor (at mine there was), but I suggest you just be yourself and have fun.
If everybody else is dancing, go dance.
If theres a cute girl off to the side that you want to talk to, go talk to her, or even better, if shes with a friend go introduce yourself to both.
I think the key ingrediant to a dance is good music... and the music at the one I went to was awesome, so I basically still felt like dancing after we got home haha.
Just make sure you're doing something and you're enjoying yourself!
If everybody else is dancing, go dance.
If theres a cute girl off to the side that you want to talk to, go talk to her, or even better, if shes with a friend go introduce yourself to both.
I think the key ingrediant to a dance is good music... and the music at the one I went to was awesome, so I basically still felt like dancing after we got home haha.
Just make sure you're doing something and you're enjoying yourself!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Mr. Prez
New Member
If your grinding with a girl, both having fun, and you bust a woody, play it off like it happens all the time and it's no reason to stop. Keep the frame. She'll only be disgusted if your worried about it.
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