CTApprentice
Don Juan
Hey guys I wondering if you could give me some last minute tips since my homecoming is tommorow.(cologne,dancing,and being social)
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Tips for homecoming?
- Thread starter CTApprentice
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
john paul
Senior Don Juan
dont really know if your homecoming is like my homecoming but if it is there wont be much talking and if there is you dont want to be in those groups of people standing off to the side talking,
get dancing as soon as you can and it will be a ton of fun
get dancing as soon as you can and it will be a ton of fun
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
wear anti-perspirant
I didn't and I was in the middle of everything so I had to use the bathroom to wash like 3 times lol
oh also, don't be afraid to ask girls to dance, don't expect them to just come to you... even though it does happen sometimes (I backed into a short one
).
haha.
I didn't and I was in the middle of everything so I had to use the bathroom to wash like 3 times lol
oh also, don't be afraid to ask girls to dance, don't expect them to just come to you... even though it does happen sometimes (I backed into a short one
). haha.
john paul said:
I've had tons of fun without doing too much dancing and standing with groups off to the side. It's a good starting place to pick up girls (if your going stag or don't like your date too much, or if you just wanna spin those plates) If dancing really isn't your thing suck it up if your date likes it...if she doesn't don't force it on her. My date to my senior HC and Prom didn't like dancing. We didn't stay too long at either, but I had A LOT more fun leaving then staying
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
I think there's usually a lot of AFC girls on the sidelines of the floor (at mine there was), but I suggest you just be yourself and have fun.
If everybody else is dancing, go dance.
If theres a cute girl off to the side that you want to talk to, go talk to her, or even better, if shes with a friend go introduce yourself to both.
I think the key ingrediant to a dance is good music... and the music at the one I went to was awesome, so I basically still felt like dancing after we got home haha.
Just make sure you're doing something and you're enjoying yourself!
If everybody else is dancing, go dance.
If theres a cute girl off to the side that you want to talk to, go talk to her, or even better, if shes with a friend go introduce yourself to both.
I think the key ingrediant to a dance is good music... and the music at the one I went to was awesome, so I basically still felt like dancing after we got home haha.
Just make sure you're doing something and you're enjoying yourself!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Mr. Prez
New Member
If your grinding with a girl, both having fun, and you bust a woody, play it off like it happens all the time and it's no reason to stop. Keep the frame. She'll only be disgusted if your worried about it.
-Mr. Prez
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