"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Tips for Escalating when your both sober ?

Bingo-Player

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My parents are away next week and I’ve invited this chick from the gym over to chill

she’s keen and i know she wants the D but is cautious because I’ve banged her best mate so its getting her wet enough to act on it

Obviously getting her to the bedroom is the first step but i don’t want to be too creepy about it

Any ideas guys ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mangotot

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Not fearing about it and just doing it might be the way to go. If she accepts great, if not there is no loss. You found out how she feels about it and the time to move on.
 

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If she's willing to come over alone she almost certainly knows you want to fvck her. I would just do what you can to make the situation as favorable as possible for you to make a move. Instead of escalating in one giant step to make you look creepy, you do so in a bunch of baby steps so it doesn't really look odd at all. This means inviting her over at night instead of morning/afternoon. Have something planned, whether it's dinner, a date, or whatever. Then casually ask if she wants to watch a movie. Once you get to that point if you're watching a movie alone with this chick at night it should be easy from there.
 

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Watch some comedy show on TV with some drinks on the side. Slowly escalate like putting your arm around her or your hand on her leg. Within 30 minutes to an hour, start kissing her and see if she reciprocates, she should get pretty turned on. Start rubbing her pvssy, finger her, take your c0ck out and put her hand on it. If you get this far you should be good for the rest. :cheer:

I'm not a big fan of movies as if she gets into it you're a bit screwed for 2 hours, unless it's a really crappy one you can both laugh at or too complicated for her to understand making her bored. TV shows work better for passive consumption when you haven't fvcked the girl yet.
 

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Go easy and take it slow, sober sex is always better. Kiss her for a looong time before getting your hands on that.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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LMFAO said:
Watch some comedy show on TV with some drinks on the side. Slowly escalate like putting your arm around her or your hand on her leg. Within 30 minutes to an hour, start kissing her and see if she reciprocates, she should get pretty turned on. Start rubbing her pvssy, finger her, take your c0ck out and put her hand on it. If you get this far you should be good for the rest. :cheer:
Haha well if i got that far i would hope id be on for the rest lol :p

Yea shes gonna come over and im gonna cook for us , think i know what to watch with her too get her in the mood aswell

Just hope shes gonna put out for me , a free house is a rare thing for me ! :trouble:
 
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