"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Tips for Escalating when your both sober ?

Bingo-Player

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My parents are away next week and I’ve invited this chick from the gym over to chill

she’s keen and i know she wants the D but is cautious because I’ve banged her best mate so its getting her wet enough to act on it

Obviously getting her to the bedroom is the first step but i don’t want to be too creepy about it

Any ideas guys ?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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mangotot

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Not fearing about it and just doing it might be the way to go. If she accepts great, if not there is no loss. You found out how she feels about it and the time to move on.
 

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If she's willing to come over alone she almost certainly knows you want to fvck her. I would just do what you can to make the situation as favorable as possible for you to make a move. Instead of escalating in one giant step to make you look creepy, you do so in a bunch of baby steps so it doesn't really look odd at all. This means inviting her over at night instead of morning/afternoon. Have something planned, whether it's dinner, a date, or whatever. Then casually ask if she wants to watch a movie. Once you get to that point if you're watching a movie alone with this chick at night it should be easy from there.
 

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Watch some comedy show on TV with some drinks on the side. Slowly escalate like putting your arm around her or your hand on her leg. Within 30 minutes to an hour, start kissing her and see if she reciprocates, she should get pretty turned on. Start rubbing her pvssy, finger her, take your c0ck out and put her hand on it. If you get this far you should be good for the rest. :cheer:

I'm not a big fan of movies as if she gets into it you're a bit screwed for 2 hours, unless it's a really crappy one you can both laugh at or too complicated for her to understand making her bored. TV shows work better for passive consumption when you haven't fvcked the girl yet.
 

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Go easy and take it slow, sober sex is always better. Kiss her for a looong time before getting your hands on that.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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LMFAO said:
Watch some comedy show on TV with some drinks on the side. Slowly escalate like putting your arm around her or your hand on her leg. Within 30 minutes to an hour, start kissing her and see if she reciprocates, she should get pretty turned on. Start rubbing her pvssy, finger her, take your c0ck out and put her hand on it. If you get this far you should be good for the rest. :cheer:
Haha well if i got that far i would hope id be on for the rest lol :p

Yea shes gonna come over and im gonna cook for us , think i know what to watch with her too get her in the mood aswell

Just hope shes gonna put out for me , a free house is a rare thing for me ! :trouble:
 
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