"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Tips for controlling emotions

Weezy

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How do the Master DJ's protect themselves from getting to emotionally attached to a girl they see as a potential LTR so they can keep their game tight?

I'm currently running game on a chick who I think is pretty down, but she's making me do all the chasing.. When we kick it she's into it, is affectionate, wants to spend as much time with me as possible (last date she was sick, I offered to drop her off after dinner instead of playing darts, and she said no she wanted to play darts. Then wanted me to kick it at her house after I dropped her off) Her **** tests are pretty minimal at this point. However I'm thinking about her way to much, and I analyze all the little things that I shouldn't worry about because she's not chasing me at all (calling or txting unless I initiate it).
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Tiguere

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Keep busy with other girls. That's how dj control their emotions. If you are spinning plates you won't care if chick number 452563 doesn't call you today. Now when you gaming one single girl everything she does and doesn't do will have am effect on you.
 

The Karate Kid

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I believe a great tip is finding something to do with your free time that A. You want to do B. Will keep you away from your phone for any given amount of time.

I am a mixed martial artist, so when i train, for 2 hrs a day, i am away from my phone, and dont even think about a chick. This makes you less available, and takes your mind off her. You not thinking about her= less emotional attachement.
 
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