"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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Tips for controlling emotions

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Weezy

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How do the Master DJ's protect themselves from getting to emotionally attached to a girl they see as a potential LTR so they can keep their game tight?

I'm currently running game on a chick who I think is pretty down, but she's making me do all the chasing.. When we kick it she's into it, is affectionate, wants to spend as much time with me as possible (last date she was sick, I offered to drop her off after dinner instead of playing darts, and she said no she wanted to play darts. Then wanted me to kick it at her house after I dropped her off) Her **** tests are pretty minimal at this point. However I'm thinking about her way to much, and I analyze all the little things that I shouldn't worry about because she's not chasing me at all (calling or txting unless I initiate it).
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

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Keep busy with other girls. That's how dj control their emotions. If you are spinning plates you won't care if chick number 452563 doesn't call you today. Now when you gaming one single girl everything she does and doesn't do will have am effect on you.
 
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I believe a great tip is finding something to do with your free time that A. You want to do B. Will keep you away from your phone for any given amount of time.

I am a mixed martial artist, so when i train, for 2 hrs a day, i am away from my phone, and dont even think about a chick. This makes you less available, and takes your mind off her. You not thinking about her= less emotional attachement.
 
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