"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tips for College

Oni

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Hey guys, college starts in 3 weeks and im really excited. Before that, I thought I'd get some inputs and advice on what i can do to make college for fun. Things like what can i do when school starts to meet more people? and expand my social network in college? also, how can i find parties to attend to and stuff like that! i'd appreciate any tips thanks
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ValleyDJing

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whats up man? I just started college like a week and a half ago. Something i found out about college, is everyone is really shy. especially the first week. at my college (its a big town so everyone comes from like 10 different high schools instead of just a couple) so nobody really knows each other. I've been trying to establish alpha status through jokes and just trying to be a class clown. everyone else is so quiet, i figure if i'm the loud one, people will just accept me as an alpha who has no problems speaking out. If I were you thats what i'd do. I don't know how things are gonna work out yet though...we'll see.
 

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ValleyDJing said:
whats up man? I just started college like a week and a half ago. Something i found out about college, is everyone is really shy. especially the first week. at my college (its a big town so everyone comes from like 10 different high schools instead of just a couple) so nobody really knows each other. I've been trying to establish alpha status through jokes and just trying to be a class clown. everyone else is so quiet, i figure if i'm the loud one, people will just accept me as an alpha who has no problems speaking out. QUOTE]


or you might be establishing your self as that class clown instead of alpha:yes:
 

Badmannaz

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ValleyDJing said:
whats up man? I just started college like a week and a half ago. Something i found out about college, is everyone is really shy. especially the first week. at my college (its a big town so everyone comes from like 10 different high schools instead of just a couple) so nobody really knows each other. I've been trying to establish alpha status through jokes and just trying to be a class clown. everyone else is so quiet, i figure if i'm the loud one, people will just accept me as an alpha who has no problems speaking out.
or you might be establishing your self as that class clown instead of alpha:yes:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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