"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Tips for College

Oni

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Hey guys, college starts in 3 weeks and im really excited. Before that, I thought I'd get some inputs and advice on what i can do to make college for fun. Things like what can i do when school starts to meet more people? and expand my social network in college? also, how can i find parties to attend to and stuff like that! i'd appreciate any tips thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ValleyDJing

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whats up man? I just started college like a week and a half ago. Something i found out about college, is everyone is really shy. especially the first week. at my college (its a big town so everyone comes from like 10 different high schools instead of just a couple) so nobody really knows each other. I've been trying to establish alpha status through jokes and just trying to be a class clown. everyone else is so quiet, i figure if i'm the loud one, people will just accept me as an alpha who has no problems speaking out. If I were you thats what i'd do. I don't know how things are gonna work out yet though...we'll see.
 

Badmannaz

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ValleyDJing said:
whats up man? I just started college like a week and a half ago. Something i found out about college, is everyone is really shy. especially the first week. at my college (its a big town so everyone comes from like 10 different high schools instead of just a couple) so nobody really knows each other. I've been trying to establish alpha status through jokes and just trying to be a class clown. everyone else is so quiet, i figure if i'm the loud one, people will just accept me as an alpha who has no problems speaking out. QUOTE]


or you might be establishing your self as that class clown instead of alpha:yes:
 

Badmannaz

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ValleyDJing said:
whats up man? I just started college like a week and a half ago. Something i found out about college, is everyone is really shy. especially the first week. at my college (its a big town so everyone comes from like 10 different high schools instead of just a couple) so nobody really knows each other. I've been trying to establish alpha status through jokes and just trying to be a class clown. everyone else is so quiet, i figure if i'm the loud one, people will just accept me as an alpha who has no problems speaking out.
or you might be establishing your self as that class clown instead of alpha:yes:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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