I see a lot of posts about what should I talk to her about, or should I ask her this or do that.
You shouldn't need to post on the forums asking about every little move you are going to make. Think for yourself, because attraction is dynamic. It dosn't follow set guidelines.
1. Talking to girls.
What should you talk to girls about? When do you talk to them? In what ways do you communicate with them?
There have been a couple of posts asking about how to have conversations with girls and what to talk to them about.
Here's my advice: make it natural. If you force yourself to talk about things, what are you going to do when you are in a relationship?
-Don't milk it. If the conversation drifts off, let it go, don't try to get her to keep talking.
-Don't talk about feelings, especially yours, and also emotional problems.
-Every girl has some topic that will get them going, find this, and you won't be able to get them to stop talking.
Don't talk to girls on the phone, or text them other than to set up meetings initially. Don't text hey how are you. And when you text, don't use any of that stupid text lingo. It looks immature and stupid.
2. Dealing with girls.
Girls think differently than guys. They forget to call you back, they can feel like not doing anything for no reason, and they usually value their friends highly.
Probably the most important point I am going to make in this post is to not freak out.
When you call up a girl to hang out, and she has something else to do, under no circumstances freak out and question them.
Tell them "ok" politely, and tell them you'll call them some other time. (don't call like the next day or anything stupid like that)
NEVER text them saying something like, oh i guess you arn't so interested.
If you call her, and she dosn't answer. Don't leave a message begging her to call you back, and especially don't text again later.
She either: didn't want to answer, wasn't there, or her phone didn't get the call.
If she didn't want to answer, there's nothing you can do. If she wasn't there, she will call you back. If she didn't get it, she will the next time you call her.
When you leave a message or text her, it takes the mystery away from why you called.
That's it for tonight, if you have any questions ask, I won't bite.
You shouldn't need to post on the forums asking about every little move you are going to make. Think for yourself, because attraction is dynamic. It dosn't follow set guidelines.
1. Talking to girls.
What should you talk to girls about? When do you talk to them? In what ways do you communicate with them?
There have been a couple of posts asking about how to have conversations with girls and what to talk to them about.
Here's my advice: make it natural. If you force yourself to talk about things, what are you going to do when you are in a relationship?
-Don't milk it. If the conversation drifts off, let it go, don't try to get her to keep talking.
-Don't talk about feelings, especially yours, and also emotional problems.
-Every girl has some topic that will get them going, find this, and you won't be able to get them to stop talking.
Don't talk to girls on the phone, or text them other than to set up meetings initially. Don't text hey how are you. And when you text, don't use any of that stupid text lingo. It looks immature and stupid.
2. Dealing with girls.
Girls think differently than guys. They forget to call you back, they can feel like not doing anything for no reason, and they usually value their friends highly.
Probably the most important point I am going to make in this post is to not freak out.
When you call up a girl to hang out, and she has something else to do, under no circumstances freak out and question them.
Tell them "ok" politely, and tell them you'll call them some other time. (don't call like the next day or anything stupid like that)
NEVER text them saying something like, oh i guess you arn't so interested.
If you call her, and she dosn't answer. Don't leave a message begging her to call you back, and especially don't text again later.
She either: didn't want to answer, wasn't there, or her phone didn't get the call.
If she didn't want to answer, there's nothing you can do. If she wasn't there, she will call you back. If she didn't get it, she will the next time you call her.
When you leave a message or text her, it takes the mystery away from why you called.
That's it for tonight, if you have any questions ask, I won't bite.
