Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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tips for an action date

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I met a girl that stays in my estate 2 weeks ago...we hooked up on sunday and strolled around the estate.we talked about a lot of things,I burst her balls,made her laugh and we connected,she even called me a comedian...she later called my cell and asked if I still wanted to hangout that night and I said "I'm open to it..we hooked up later that night and talked for awhile...there was much kino añd I was flirting with her all night......my fellow dj's I need advice on types of action date I can do with her,coz I'll be seeing her soon.thanks...:D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Borrow a friend's .22 handgun, take her shooting. Be sure to have ear and eye protection for both of you! Do not let her ears take a beating as you enter the range area! Take her to a karate class, AFTER you have researched such things and enrolled in a GOOD one, small numbers class, high $, but well worth it.
 

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"Lots of kino" = "I kept putting my hands on her and didn't score but still want credit".

The whole action date thing is overrated. Take her for a glass of wine on the first date. Make her dinner on the third date. Have sex for action after that.
 

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bigneil said:
"Lots of kino" = "I kept putting my hands on her and didn't score but still want credit".

The whole action date thing is overrated. Take her for a glass of wine on the first date. Make her dinner on the third date. Have sex for action after that.

Agreed. I hate when dudes get all, "I have a hot date coming up! Gotta plan something big to impress her."

If the girl digs you, then drinks and conversation get the job done. Always. And think about it...if you end up dating her for even a short amount of time, you're gonna spend most of your time together talking, drinking and f**king anyway. Why go over the top with some rock climbing/salsa-dancing/scuba diving action date?

My philosophy on dates is, I do what I'd normally do. Except there's a girl with me.
 
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