"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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tips for an action date

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I met a girl that stays in my estate 2 weeks ago...we hooked up on sunday and strolled around the estate.we talked about a lot of things,I burst her balls,made her laugh and we connected,she even called me a comedian...she later called my cell and asked if I still wanted to hangout that night and I said "I'm open to it..we hooked up later that night and talked for awhile...there was much kino añd I was flirting with her all night......my fellow dj's I need advice on types of action date I can do with her,coz I'll be seeing her soon.thanks...:D
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Borrow a friend's .22 handgun, take her shooting. Be sure to have ear and eye protection for both of you! Do not let her ears take a beating as you enter the range area! Take her to a karate class, AFTER you have researched such things and enrolled in a GOOD one, small numbers class, high $, but well worth it.
 

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"Lots of kino" = "I kept putting my hands on her and didn't score but still want credit".

The whole action date thing is overrated. Take her for a glass of wine on the first date. Make her dinner on the third date. Have sex for action after that.
 

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bigneil said:
"Lots of kino" = "I kept putting my hands on her and didn't score but still want credit".

The whole action date thing is overrated. Take her for a glass of wine on the first date. Make her dinner on the third date. Have sex for action after that.

Agreed. I hate when dudes get all, "I have a hot date coming up! Gotta plan something big to impress her."

If the girl digs you, then drinks and conversation get the job done. Always. And think about it...if you end up dating her for even a short amount of time, you're gonna spend most of your time together talking, drinking and f**king anyway. Why go over the top with some rock climbing/salsa-dancing/scuba diving action date?

My philosophy on dates is, I do what I'd normally do. Except there's a girl with me.
 
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