"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Nino-Tk

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Holla fellow DJ'S, ever since ive been to this site, my girl probs have been at a minimum and im thankfull for that because im currently in a fantastic LTR with a girl that is 9.0 on my scale.Okay even though its now easier to get girls, i really want to focus on school and get high marks..Thing is i struggle with maths and physics so badly, and its affecting my overall confidence,so how can i solve this? Because im starting my exams on the 19th of may..Any tips for me to be successful?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Julius_Seizeher

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Warrior's technical advice could be of much benefit for you. In addition to the internet, you may convince your parents to hire a tutor.

Above all, you must BELIEVE that you CAN, and you WILL, achieve whatever degree of competence in math and physics that you aspire to. Your limitations are just that; yours. But like anything else that belongs to you, you may take it or leave it at will.
 

Mr.Positive

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The key to life, is to find out what you want to do, then finding out how to do it.

Believe in yourself, have confidence, see the target, know you can get it...and, accept help from others. Get 'er done.
 

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There are two thing you must do to be good at math and physics:

1) Work problems until your eyes bleed. Nothing will get you further than this, except #2.
2) Work problems until your eyes bleed WITH people who really understand the concepts and can explain them to you if you get stuck. Aka, good study group.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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CaptainJ

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Bladerunner said:
There are two thing you must do to be good at math and physics:

1) Work problems until your eyes bleed. Nothing will get you further than this, except #2.
2) Work problems until your eyes bleed WITH people who really understand the concepts and can explain them to you if you get stuck. Aka, good study group.
^^ this. What I used to do in maths was go through sh1tloads of test papers, whilst sitting next to the advanced maths kids in the library, and ask them to explain questions I didn't know to me. It's a sure fire formula for success in Maths.
 

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I invested in a Pulse Smart Pen for college. I graduated as Valedictorian of my class. If you can get one of those and use it it will help tremendously.
 

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Nino-Tk said:
Holla fellow DJ'S, ever since ive been to this site, my girl probs have been at a minimum and im thankfull for that because im currently in a fantastic LTR with a girl that is 9.0 on my scale.Okay even though its now easier to get girls, i really want to focus on school and get high marks..Thing is i struggle with maths and physics so badly, and its affecting my overall confidence,so how can i solve this? Because im starting my exams on the 19th of may..Any tips for me to be successful?
Hehe looks like you're the exact opposite of most guys in here ;)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mike32ct

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CaptainJ said:
^^ this. What I used to do in maths was go through sh1tloads of test papers, whilst sitting next to the advanced maths kids in the library, and ask them to explain questions I didn't know to me. It's a sure fire formula for success in Maths.
Absolutely. It's all practice. Do as many problems as you have the answers to. All of the ones you don't have the answers to, seek help. It's not about memorizing, it's about having as much experience with the problems as possible so that it builds your confidence and intuition. Then during an exam you can go with your gut which saves time.
 
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