"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Tips for a struggling student?

Nino-Tk

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Holla fellow DJ'S, ever since ive been to this site, my girl probs have been at a minimum and im thankfull for that because im currently in a fantastic LTR with a girl that is 9.0 on my scale.Okay even though its now easier to get girls, i really want to focus on school and get high marks..Thing is i struggle with maths and physics so badly, and its affecting my overall confidence,so how can i solve this? Because im starting my exams on the 19th of may..Any tips for me to be successful?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Julius_Seizeher

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Warrior's technical advice could be of much benefit for you. In addition to the internet, you may convince your parents to hire a tutor.

Above all, you must BELIEVE that you CAN, and you WILL, achieve whatever degree of competence in math and physics that you aspire to. Your limitations are just that; yours. But like anything else that belongs to you, you may take it or leave it at will.
 

Mr.Positive

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The key to life, is to find out what you want to do, then finding out how to do it.

Believe in yourself, have confidence, see the target, know you can get it...and, accept help from others. Get 'er done.
 

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There are two thing you must do to be good at math and physics:

1) Work problems until your eyes bleed. Nothing will get you further than this, except #2.
2) Work problems until your eyes bleed WITH people who really understand the concepts and can explain them to you if you get stuck. Aka, good study group.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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CaptainJ

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Bladerunner said:
There are two thing you must do to be good at math and physics:

1) Work problems until your eyes bleed. Nothing will get you further than this, except #2.
2) Work problems until your eyes bleed WITH people who really understand the concepts and can explain them to you if you get stuck. Aka, good study group.
^^ this. What I used to do in maths was go through sh1tloads of test papers, whilst sitting next to the advanced maths kids in the library, and ask them to explain questions I didn't know to me. It's a sure fire formula for success in Maths.
 

OMGWTFLMAO

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I invested in a Pulse Smart Pen for college. I graduated as Valedictorian of my class. If you can get one of those and use it it will help tremendously.
 

Huffman

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Nino-Tk said:
Holla fellow DJ'S, ever since ive been to this site, my girl probs have been at a minimum and im thankfull for that because im currently in a fantastic LTR with a girl that is 9.0 on my scale.Okay even though its now easier to get girls, i really want to focus on school and get high marks..Thing is i struggle with maths and physics so badly, and its affecting my overall confidence,so how can i solve this? Because im starting my exams on the 19th of may..Any tips for me to be successful?
Hehe looks like you're the exact opposite of most guys in here ;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mike32ct

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CaptainJ said:
^^ this. What I used to do in maths was go through sh1tloads of test papers, whilst sitting next to the advanced maths kids in the library, and ask them to explain questions I didn't know to me. It's a sure fire formula for success in Maths.
Absolutely. It's all practice. Do as many problems as you have the answers to. All of the ones you don't have the answers to, seek help. It's not about memorizing, it's about having as much experience with the problems as possible so that it builds your confidence and intuition. Then during an exam you can go with your gut which saves time.
 
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