"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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tips anyone?

Jake_tha_Boss

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I'm after this chick, lets call her AB lindsay shes been in my 2nd hour all year and at first shed try to talk to me an i wasn't trying to get with her at the time but towards the end of 1st semester i figured **** it why not an started talking to her and she was all responsive, smiling & laughing at anything i said, then the 1st or 2nd day i was with a friend in the cafeteria at lunch and she walks up and we talked for a little bit then as she turned to leave i slapped her ass and went around the corner real quick, she txted me the next day and didn't seem to mind it at all, and so far this week we've just been talking, every now and then i put my arm around her when were walking to class and i been talkin to her about going over to watch a movie with her at her house when no ones home friday after school, i know this looks great an I've pretty been going with my gut instinct on what to do but im still a little paranoid that im gonna screw it up some how, any thoughts?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Jack Wealthy said:
I thought your story was going to be ''But after four weeks of trying to get her she said we were just friends. What did I do wrong?''.
if that were the case it'd be more like "she said we were just friends and i told her i have enough friends and left" **** wasting my time on that BS
 

Jake_tha_Boss

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well it seems the above situations happened, damn well i told her "i don't need more friends bye" and thats that, i think my **** up was overthinking ****, anyway i gotta get a job so i aint got the time for this kinda bull****, gotta put this **** on hold til i can find work
 
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