Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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tips anyone?

Jake_tha_Boss

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I'm after this chick, lets call her AB lindsay shes been in my 2nd hour all year and at first shed try to talk to me an i wasn't trying to get with her at the time but towards the end of 1st semester i figured **** it why not an started talking to her and she was all responsive, smiling & laughing at anything i said, then the 1st or 2nd day i was with a friend in the cafeteria at lunch and she walks up and we talked for a little bit then as she turned to leave i slapped her ass and went around the corner real quick, she txted me the next day and didn't seem to mind it at all, and so far this week we've just been talking, every now and then i put my arm around her when were walking to class and i been talkin to her about going over to watch a movie with her at her house when no ones home friday after school, i know this looks great an I've pretty been going with my gut instinct on what to do but im still a little paranoid that im gonna screw it up some how, any thoughts?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Jack Wealthy said:
I thought your story was going to be ''But after four weeks of trying to get her she said we were just friends. What did I do wrong?''.
if that were the case it'd be more like "she said we were just friends and i told her i have enough friends and left" **** wasting my time on that BS
 

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well it seems the above situations happened, damn well i told her "i don't need more friends bye" and thats that, i think my **** up was overthinking ****, anyway i gotta get a job so i aint got the time for this kinda bull****, gotta put this **** on hold til i can find work
 
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