"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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tips anyone?

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I'm after this chick, lets call her AB lindsay shes been in my 2nd hour all year and at first shed try to talk to me an i wasn't trying to get with her at the time but towards the end of 1st semester i figured **** it why not an started talking to her and she was all responsive, smiling & laughing at anything i said, then the 1st or 2nd day i was with a friend in the cafeteria at lunch and she walks up and we talked for a little bit then as she turned to leave i slapped her ass and went around the corner real quick, she txted me the next day and didn't seem to mind it at all, and so far this week we've just been talking, every now and then i put my arm around her when were walking to class and i been talkin to her about going over to watch a movie with her at her house when no ones home friday after school, i know this looks great an I've pretty been going with my gut instinct on what to do but im still a little paranoid that im gonna screw it up some how, any thoughts?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jack Wealthy said:
I thought your story was going to be ''But after four weeks of trying to get her she said we were just friends. What did I do wrong?''.
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if that were the case it'd be more like "she said we were just friends and i told her i have enough friends and left" **** wasting my time on that BS
 
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well it seems the above situations happened, damn well i told her "i don't need more friends bye" and thats that, i think my **** up was overthinking ****, anyway i gotta get a job so i aint got the time for this kinda bull****, gotta put this **** on hold til i can find work
 
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