"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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tips and tricks with attention

sam3083

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Ok, so I understand the idea/concept of denying a HB attention, after giving her attention or just giving her short spurts of attention. My question is that how much attention should I give and how often should it be given?

Keeping in mind that I want to convey to this girl that I am interested, becasue we are sort of already associates, and I have been kinoing her pretty well lately.
She is a grade younger then I am, so I see her occasionally at school for brief periods of time. However, we both do track and field where we are around each other 3 times a week (mon, wed, thur) for about an hour and a half. During track and field we train with each other quite a bit ( we are both in the more advanced group of only about 5 people, out of those I am easily the alpha male though).
Would giving her my full attention every training be too much or what?

Cheers for the advice.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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AlphaOmega

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Just ask her out. Whats so difficult about "hey, do you wanna have dinner together after this?", or "lets grab a coffee?". If you don't, somebody else could move in, she could have somebody else, or a plethora of scenario's where your hard work goes for nothing. And for what? She will either say yes, at which point your in a better situation to work her up, or she will say no, and then you know she doesn't want you. So? Do you honestly believe that playing with attention or hot-and-cold games like radio knobs is gonna make her want you if she already decided she doesn't?
 

sam3083

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good point omega. Kind of came to thatconclusion myself recently...

Probably something I have to work on. The whole 'no fear' notion.

So from hee should I read some more bible, or just grit my teeth and go for it.

Think I answered my own question... Go for it.
 

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Push her

Try push/pull technique. Send her mixed signal... that's make bold attraction.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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sam3083

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ok... can u elaborate a bit more on the wolf. I understand the concept but an example or something would be really handy
 
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