"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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sam3083

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Ok, so I understand the idea/concept of denying a HB attention, after giving her attention or just giving her short spurts of attention. My question is that how much attention should I give and how often should it be given?

Keeping in mind that I want to convey to this girl that I am interested, becasue we are sort of already associates, and I have been kinoing her pretty well lately.
She is a grade younger then I am, so I see her occasionally at school for brief periods of time. However, we both do track and field where we are around each other 3 times a week (mon, wed, thur) for about an hour and a half. During track and field we train with each other quite a bit ( we are both in the more advanced group of only about 5 people, out of those I am easily the alpha male though).
Would giving her my full attention every training be too much or what?

Cheers for the advice.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Just ask her out. Whats so difficult about "hey, do you wanna have dinner together after this?", or "lets grab a coffee?". If you don't, somebody else could move in, she could have somebody else, or a plethora of scenario's where your hard work goes for nothing. And for what? She will either say yes, at which point your in a better situation to work her up, or she will say no, and then you know she doesn't want you. So? Do you honestly believe that playing with attention or hot-and-cold games like radio knobs is gonna make her want you if she already decided she doesn't?
 
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good point omega. Kind of came to thatconclusion myself recently...

Probably something I have to work on. The whole 'no fear' notion.

So from hee should I read some more bible, or just grit my teeth and go for it.

Think I answered my own question... Go for it.
 
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Push her

Try push/pull technique. Send her mixed signal... that's make bold attraction.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ok... can u elaborate a bit more on the wolf. I understand the concept but an example or something would be really handy
 
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