I would if i hadn't had a thing to eat in erhm...4 months!!Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Would'ya eat a Big Mac if the meat was a green but the bun was alright?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I would if i hadn't had a thing to eat in erhm...4 months!!Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Would'ya eat a Big Mac if the meat was a green but the bun was alright?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
It's been that long, huh?Originally posted by \O/
I would if i hadn't had a thing to eat in erhm...4 months!!![]()
Right on.By BrotherAP:
If you're defining attractive by what they wear - here's a tip for you. The really hot girls, deserving of the highest ratings, are the ones who look good no matter what they wear, how their hair is done or how much makeup they've put on. Girls slut themselves out knowing that guys respond to this. Makeup is meant to impair your ability to judge a girl. Don't fall for it.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.