It’s as simple as this, when you post about someone you love and an experienced memmber of the community tells you she’s no bueno, listen to them. Even if you can’t agree with what they’re saying at the momment just agree. I recently posted about a woman that I was starting to fall in love with and acouple DJ’s answered and pretty much told me she was not good, not to waste my time, ect.. Not even a week after they told me that I decided to call her to part ways since I’m in the process of joining the Marines and don’t trust what will happen. To be short and frank, she literally beat me to it lol, pretty much told me how this wouldn’t work out, blah blah blah, lets be friends, we all know the deal. Long story short, listen to what the community tells you; everyone here was at one point where you were. Ps thanks to the people who responded to the last post i had up
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
**TIP FROM NEW DJ TO OTHER DJ’s**
- Thread starter many6451
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
Sure listen to the good advice but make your own decision.. some of the experienced DJs still end up in the same boat as you. But we all are learning I guess.
lamath
Master Don Juan
+1
Think for yourself
