"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tip for all the younger guys

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You know those really hot girls you want and wish you could get? Set up your life, and in 5-7 years when you look at them again, you will exclaim 'Wow, I wouldn't give these girls half a day now, since i can get better ones!"

I just found a bunch of chicks I drooled over in HS. Yeah... last I remember one of them met me at a club 3 months ago and couldn't help her jaw from falling, I don't even think she recognized me.

Point is, do your thing, girls will come if you put in the work on life.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Its posts like these that keeps me motivated to stay on track!

Your 100% right.
My aim is to disappear from the world and get on with developing all aspects of my life. When i return, I'm expecting jaws to drop. Hence shifting power over to me!

Nice one :up:
 

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Funny, the hotties I knew from highschool are now mostly ugly and fat. 10 years makes a world of difference to some people...
 

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So true. All these girls that I've graduated with that I thought were so hot are nothing compared to the girls I've been meeting recently. It's worth noting though that some of the chicks do end up and remain at the top of the crop. The hottest girl I know is one I wanted to get with since high school.
 

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I agree with this. I'm only 4 years removed from high school, and already some of the "hotties" are losing their looks. Some are still very cute, but others have declined.

My friends are fearful of our 5 or 10 high school reunion for my sake. Back in my AFC days in high school, girls enjoyed leading me on, playing me, and making a scene when they turned me down. So may horror stories from high school. When the small, skinny guy they turned down walks into the reunion with 40 points of added muscle and extra swagger, I may go over the top.

I guess the thing to pick up on from that story is that while girls looks decline, guys looks could improve. A lot can change in a short time,
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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my favorite story is my buddy who went to his 10 year, he basically got drunk and was hitting on the girl, walked up to one

hey
oh hi
you are michelle, right?
yes!
you have no idea how many times i used to jerk off thinking about you back in HS!


I think they ended up hooking up later that night
 

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Of course females lose their looks quickly. The problem is that in America you will be stuck with older females as you get older. That is one of the many issues in America.
 

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BigJimbo said:
Of course females lose their looks quickly. The problem is that in America you will be stuck with older females as you get older. That is one of the many issues in America.
Yeah we should go to Ukraine as you so often remind us. Because that country really has its act together.
 

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Iceberg said:
Yeah we should go to Ukraine as you so often remind us. Because that country really has its act together.
IN SOVIET RUSSIA, WOMAN AGE YOUNGER!
 
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